I think it's gotten better, or at least I've moved into better communities, but it's definitely not ideal.

I remember I once got dog piled and banned from a discord server made for the tumblr community I was a part of because I, as a 'cis man', was engaging with genderfuckery with my OCs to explore my identity through fiction in a way they didn't approve of.

the to go fee is pretty dumb, yeah. But the service charge is just so that any server is willing to take your to go order. Most people don't tip on to go orders, and servers make their money purely on tips, so they have no reason to take your to go order otherwise.

I'd been plucking facial hair with tweezers for years with no trouble. Waxing really just saved time when my roommate let me try theirs.

As a waffle house server I must point out that she's wearing a men's uniform, and then ask what the significance of this is 👀