involuntaryincel.bsky.social
@involuntaryincel.bsky.social
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January 26, 2026 at 7:18 PM
#MGTOW and it's critics need to appeal to what professionals like #DianeFleishman are saying. Actually follow the science, people!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YmT...
"We Evolved to Manipulate" - Dr Diana Fleischman
YouTube video by Triggernometry
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January 29, 2026 at 5:15 PM
It's really all about the #MarshmallowTest. I'm not going to #mansplain that women should completely give up on paying attention to their feelings. I'm noting that the ones who are contributing to the dating problems today are failing at this classic test to hold out for a better reward...
January 29, 2026 at 4:15 PM
#GreenAcres. That's what this struggle is like. We need to either give up our tournament species behavior or our pair bonding behavior. We can't functionally have both.
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January 29, 2026 at 12:06 AM
Well, I met a pretty smart woman tonight. We debated about Israel. Did I fuck up my chances? She's only temporarily in town, but it won't be the last time I'll see her. I almost feel like my buds were shitty wingmen tonight. She was making good eye contact with me and they gave her a ride home.
January 28, 2026 at 10:10 AM
Tonight's social activity will be activism. I'm going to an even to help promote #StarVoting. An alternative voting system that is better than #RankedChoice mathematically in resisting the spoiler effect. #NoKings #iceICE If you want change, we NEED star voting.
Starvoting.org
January 28, 2026 at 12:49 AM
I started to think of myself as a loser, incapable of doing the thing that is my nature, connecting with a woman and having kids. I look at this from an angle of my nature verses my choice. Why is it so hard to do of there's nothing wrong with me?
January 27, 2026 at 8:38 PM
I was chatting with an older woman about the real struggles in dating today and she had an interesting take. She suggested we need to bring matchmaking back. Funny enough, I don't think a real matchmaking community driven institution existed, at least not in Euro-Western cultures...
January 26, 2026 at 10:42 PM
I've been working towards being more attractive over the last year. Starting with weightloss and resistance training. I've held off on getting new clothes because I'm not at my weight goal yet. I also need to save and get out of my debt...
January 26, 2026 at 9:00 PM
The recent ex just returned from the euro trip she decided to break up with me from. She posted herself singing Unwell. I felt a part of that performance, which clearly involved me.

It sucks because she, if she really wanted to, could fix things between us...
January 26, 2026 at 4:22 PM
I predict that one day, Facebook will have a feature to make a booty call request open to a set of partners you have a mutual physical appreciation for.
January 25, 2026 at 10:48 AM
Made plans tonight. I've got ~$25 to last me until Wednesday, so on this saturday night, I'll start at a networking event for creators and follow up with my Free Hugs shirt at my fav karaoke bar. Never tried that shirt there before.

... If only I had some booze to pregame a little... Meh, #YOLO.
January 25, 2026 at 12:37 AM
Been in a long convo with Google Gemini today trying to refine my understanding of different attachment styles and the struggles I have with them or have with finding them.

Human psych has an interesting bit of complexity if you remove the cluster B impossible to handle personality extremes...
January 25, 2026 at 12:07 AM
Hahaha! Just an epic setup that needs no punchline, but cool if you wanna try to make one:

Are you there, God? It's me, Beavis.
January 24, 2026 at 4:06 AM
Speaking of booze, if any of you have mever read about the if-by-whiskey fallacy, it's a must read. If I get a good following here, I will quickly go live just to perform the speech in my best attempt at a Kentucky accent. It's my favorite speech of all time.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Noah_S....
Noah S. Sweat - Wikipedia
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January 24, 2026 at 2:56 AM
Nothing beats a pet when it comes to fighting depression. Not a cure, but a great buffer.
January 24, 2026 at 2:08 AM
An idea for a movie or series:
A single female protagonist who blurts out what she wants and would negotiate with the men she talks to. Like, Liar Liar, but all about exposing what women want...
January 24, 2026 at 12:02 AM
It's interesting how much a sense of #purpose ties into my #depression. I feel like I want a job that makes a difference with my natural problem solving talents. I feel like I want to have kids and cultivate a close and personal relationship with a partner to raise them with me...
January 23, 2026 at 8:22 PM
#RestorativeJustice
I'm a proud believer in this idea. Weird how so many #liberal online and irl bubbles have banned me while talking out of both sides of their mouths about it. They claim that they don't have enough resources for this practice inspired by native peoples... 🙄
January 23, 2026 at 7:23 PM
Why is it my nature to need physical intimate relations with a fem physique so hard? Well, duh, natural selection. That which continues to procreate continues to exist, no matter how tortured.

But there's also me, the individual. Would I change my nature if I could? Maybe temporarily...
January 23, 2026 at 6:47 PM
To be clear, I am a radical #Leftist. I do not support any ideological or propaganda messaging that has come out of the online #Incel community. I never took a deep dive, either, and I don't care to. The point is a lot of men are sexually frustrated out of their minds and there's natural reasons.
January 23, 2026 at 6:44 PM
#Depression is an ugly thing that a lot of us struggle with. I cpunt myself lucky that my depression is always attached to good reasons to feel helpless. Particularly, being single makes me depressed. I need someone to hold most nights or the self-destruct sequence in my brain starts to tick...
January 23, 2026 at 5:55 PM
Hello. I decided to make this account a personal journal. Writing journals never worked for me, but talking to people willing always has. I find too many close loved ones just want to make me shut up when I get into these depressing and critical details, so, at least this can be separate from them.
January 23, 2026 at 5:49 PM