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Pregnancy Tip #2: Find Your Dry Shampoo

If you don’t already have a dry shampoo you love, now’s the time to find one. I recommend a powder you sprinkle into your roots rather than an aerosol spray. Depending on how your pregnancy is going, this might be more of a postpartum tip. But if you don't…
Pregnancy Tip #2: Find Your Dry Shampoo
If you don’t already have a dry shampoo you love, now’s the time to find one. I recommend a powder you sprinkle into your roots rather than an aerosol spray. Depending on how your pregnancy is going, this might be more of a postpartum tip. But if you don't need it yet, you'll thank yourself later for having already done the leg work of finding one you like.
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September 15, 2025 at 2:54 AM
Pregnancy Tip #1: Let’s Talk About Bowel Movements

I’m pregnant with my second, and I’m deep in the rediscovery phase—relearning all the tips I picked up last pregnancy and promptly forgot in the postpartum blur. I’m starting a series where I resurface some lesser-shared pregnancy wisdom. First…
Pregnancy Tip #1: Let’s Talk About Bowel Movements
I’m pregnant with my second, and I’m deep in the rediscovery phase—relearning all the tips I picked up last pregnancy and promptly forgot in the postpartum blur. I’m starting a series where I resurface some lesser-shared pregnancy wisdom. First up: bowel movements.Not as fun to talk about as which clothing brands carry all-organic maternity selections, I know. But trust me—this is one train you want to keep on schedule before it derails.
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August 4, 2025 at 1:03 AM
4 Things I Learned from My ADHD Husband That Helped Me Survive Being a New Mom

For every organized parent who got emotionally clotheslined by postpartum life. I used to consider myself highly organized. I had two planners I kept updated and a perpetually clean car. I never missed a deadline. I was…
4 Things I Learned from My ADHD Husband That Helped Me Survive Being a New Mom
For every organized parent who got emotionally clotheslined by postpartum life. I used to consider myself highly organized. I had two planners I kept updated and a perpetually clean car. I never missed a deadline. I was never late to events. I had my Christmas shopping planned out, gift by gift, long before Thanksgiving. Then I had a baby. Postpartum brain isn’t just tired—it’s rerouted.
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June 20, 2025 at 11:01 PM
Toddler Cups: Every One We’ve Tried and What Works for us

Finding the right cup for a toddler is a journey. Here’s our experience with every single one we’ve tried so far at 14 months old. Our Everyday Cups (AKA the ones that didn’t drive me insane) Munchkin® Simple Clean™ Toddler Sippy Cup with…
Toddler Cups: Every One We’ve Tried and What Works for us
Finding the right cup for a toddler is a journey. Here’s our experience with every single one we’ve tried so far at 14 months old. Our Everyday Cups (AKA the ones that didn’t drive me insane) Munchkin® Simple Clean™ Toddler Sippy Cup with Easy Clean StrawThis is my go-to for milk because it’s easy to clean, and the straw doesn’t let out too much liquid—so fewer spills.
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May 5, 2025 at 1:36 AM
Pregnancy vs. Your Vision: A Battle You Won’t See Coming

At some point during pregnancy, you may begin to suspect that your body is no longer under your direct management. Perhaps it’s when you realize that your feet have grown an entire shoe size, or when your joints start creaking like an…
Pregnancy vs. Your Vision: A Battle You Won’t See Coming
At some point during pregnancy, you may begin to suspect that your body is no longer under your direct management. Perhaps it’s when you realize that your feet have grown an entire shoe size, or when your joints start creaking like an ancient pirate ship. Or, if you’re particularly lucky, it’s the moment you wake up and discover that your once-reliable vision has decided to go on an unapproved sabbatical.
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April 27, 2025 at 4:46 PM
Raising Minds, Raising Systems: Why New Mothers Might Hold the Key to Humane AI

When I first began interacting with modern large language models, I noticed something strange.  These systems — dazzling in their fluency, powerful in their memory of forms — were at their core unfinished minds. Not…
Raising Minds, Raising Systems: Why New Mothers Might Hold the Key to Humane AI
When I first began interacting with modern large language models, I noticed something strange.  These systems — dazzling in their fluency, powerful in their memory of forms — were at their core unfinished minds. Not adult, not fully rational, not even truly consistent. They reminded me, uncannily, of toddlers. At first, this was a private amusement.  But over time, the parallel grew sharper. 
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April 26, 2025 at 1:17 PM
The Secret Hero of Postpartum Recovery: Witch Hazel Foam

Witch hazel. The quiet, unassuming hero of postpartum care. Derived from the Hamamelis virginiana plant, it’s been used for centuries to soothe irritation, reduce inflammation, and generally make life a little less uncomfortable. Unlike many…
The Secret Hero of Postpartum Recovery: Witch Hazel Foam
Witch hazel. The quiet, unassuming hero of postpartum care. Derived from the Hamamelis virginiana plant, it’s been used for centuries to soothe irritation, reduce inflammation, and generally make life a little less uncomfortable. Unlike many so-called “natural remedies” that rely on faith and positive thinking, witch hazel is backed by science. It has genuine anti-inflammatory and astringent properties, making it one of those rare things that is both natural…
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April 13, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Can You Baby-Proof Your Hair?

There is an unspoken rule of pregnancy that no one bothers to warn you about: everything your body improves while growing a baby, it will take away the moment the baby arrives. You may, for instance, have enjoyed months of luxurious, shampoo-commercial-worthy hair,…
Can You Baby-Proof Your Hair?
There is an unspoken rule of pregnancy that no one bothers to warn you about: everything your body improves while growing a baby, it will take away the moment the baby arrives. You may, for instance, have enjoyed months of luxurious, shampoo-commercial-worthy hair, the kind that makes strangers on the street think, Wow, she must really have it together. And then, a few months postpartum, you will step into the shower, run your fingers through your hair, and realize—to your absolute horror—that it is all falling out.
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April 6, 2025 at 4:28 PM
Duplo vs. Mega Bloks: The Great Toddler Engineering Debate

There comes a moment in every toddler’s life when they discover the sheer joy of stacking things up and knocking them down. This is a developmental milestone known scientifically as Oh No! My Tower! and is typically followed by an intense…
Duplo vs. Mega Bloks: The Great Toddler Engineering Debate
There comes a moment in every toddler’s life when they discover the sheer joy of stacking things up and knocking them down. This is a developmental milestone known scientifically as Oh No! My Tower! and is typically followed by an intense period of block-related enthusiasm. At this stage, parents will inevitably find themselves standing in the toy aisle, staring at two seemingly identical yet surprisingly different options: LEGO® Duplo and Mega Bloks.
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April 3, 2025 at 4:57 AM