And, like, it could be so much worse, right? They could be actively harmful to me, and they're not. But I hate it. They still make frequent mistakes with my name and pronouns, and I'm pretty sure they still refer to me as their son when I'm not around. I just. Wish they actually believed me.

Also, based on basically every interaction I've ever had with men, the answer is either yes, or they don't care.

Corm