Jancee Tabacnic
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Jancee Tabacnic
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35 years old. Reader, cozy game enthusiast. I have a library science degree that I don’t use but am very proud of. I love my wife and my cat!
This gives me True Detective vibes, honestly.
December 4, 2025 at 10:25 PM
It’s can be hard to shift a mindset like that, but really rewarding. And ultimately more satisfying too - when you look for the good in the world, and how to be that good in the world, it gives you stakes in things in a good way.
December 3, 2025 at 12:44 AM
We watched The Goonies over Thanksgiving weekend and discovered it’s a great Hanukkah movie because the Jewish character mentions that his attic is only full of Hanukkah decorations! That sealed it for us!
December 2, 2025 at 11:49 PM
I agree. If you have to believe in an afterlife to motivate you to be a good person, that says a lot about you.
December 2, 2025 at 11:34 PM
There are probably books there too, right? Right???
December 2, 2025 at 11:34 PM
Nope. We’re all tired, busy, stressed, but we have a responsibility to each other and to the world. Be good people. Make the world a better place.
December 2, 2025 at 11:32 PM
Reminds me of the Jewish story of the two folks having an argument, so they asked God to give them a sign, then ignored the sign and made their own decisions!
December 2, 2025 at 11:31 PM
Haha, you’re probably right! 🤣
December 2, 2025 at 11:29 PM
Yes to this. So many people seem to want to seem edgy and cynical, but it’s actually really cool to be authentic and kind and just try to make people’s days better. No need to be snarky or angry for no reason.
December 2, 2025 at 11:26 PM
I mean, that seems pretty glorious actually. We could probably all use it.

If there is an afterlife, us Jewish folks will still be arguing over everything though - 2 Jews, 3 opinions.
December 2, 2025 at 11:23 PM
Yeah, if there even is an afterlife. I don’t worry about it too much - I just try to be a good person, take care of those around me, and do what I can to make this world a little bit better. It’s not about accolades or rewards, just responsibility to the world.
December 2, 2025 at 11:17 PM
Exactly this! Judaism cares way more about leaving a good legacy and a better world. Our social responsibilities to the world and each other. Whether or not we do it for god or an afterlife is an afterthought often.
December 2, 2025 at 11:02 PM
I can’t help it! I WANT to like it, does that count?
December 2, 2025 at 10:55 PM
Me too!
December 1, 2025 at 5:21 PM
Yeah, plus my wife and I BOTH have birthdays coming up between now and mid-January (mine is Saturday!) and of course those are just extra opportunities!
November 30, 2025 at 11:44 PM
My coworker asked for a wishlist from me for my boss, something like an Amazon wishlist she could easily send to him. I’m also hoping for some ps5 games or a board game. Same with my aunt - we usually just ask for household items but added some board games this year!
November 30, 2025 at 11:05 PM
Not if you’re in the middle of 5 or 10 others! 🤣
November 30, 2025 at 9:51 PM
I LOVE this book, I still think about it randomly all the time!
November 25, 2025 at 12:35 AM
Looks super involved, but pretty fun (and maybe frustrating?)! I immediately asked my friend who’s a history teacher if he’d heard of it, so I may have to add it to my collection.
November 19, 2025 at 1:18 AM
I think I’ve only played a couple games, and finished neither, that released this year. I’m currently playing through Clair Obscur and Baby Steps and I love both. I’m sure Clair Obscur will sweep the awards, and I hope more people embrace the rage of Baby Steps!
November 18, 2025 at 1:47 AM
Reading Things Fall Apart and also The Handmaid’s Tale in college was instrumental in helping me to see the realities of the world and forcing me to confront the conservative beliefs in which I had been raised!
November 12, 2025 at 1:36 AM
Thanks! We only have one matchup- I don’t remember which, but I like the game and would be interested in getting more characters!
November 9, 2025 at 11:28 PM
Which matchup is this? Is the jack-o’-lantern part of it?
November 9, 2025 at 10:28 PM