we are both neurodivergent and awful at messaging so I do understand but at the same time I feel like this is something that should’ve been mentioned a while ago and I feel a little hurt that I’m only just finding this out

Just concerns me that when my baby is here, my mum will likely not respect any of the boundaries that I set.

I get she’s my mum and she’s excited for her grandbaby but that still doesn’t give her the right to try and do it every time I see her. It was my big pregnancy rule - don’t touch my bump! I will happily slap her hands away every time she tries.

“I did the dishes yesterday” cool I do them 99% of the time and often have to re do yours because you can’t wash up properly anyways.

“I cooked yesterday” okay and? Once again? I cook 90% of the our meals because you “don’t know how to cook it” (actual excuse he used to not cook a full English)

Like okay cool good for you, there’s things I do daily that I don’t make a fucking complaint about and things you’ll never do cause “they aren’t important”. Just fucking do the thing, relationships are all about team work, I shouldn’t have to ask for help with keeping the fucking flat clean.

I’m intrigued to see how she identifies the “biological women” from trans women in the applications