Common courtesy would tell you not to use the word that she wants to use.
When I was growing up in the 1960s, it was an acceptable word but even before the passage of the ADA in 1990, it became an insult.
Common courtesy would tell you not to use the word that she wants to use.
When I was growing up in the 1960s, it was an acceptable word but even before the passage of the ADA in 1990, it became an insult.