The HAND on the THIGH.

You look so happy, friend. ❤️

He was apparently just diagnosed with BPD. I feel validated, and angry that his denial robbed me of my marriage, and processing that everything finally makes sense.

You're so supportive of me. Thank you, friend. ❤️

Aww, looks like little dude needs a Lap Buddy!

NOOOoooooooo..

I teared up reading this

Until I was ready to cry. It's a bully playing keep-away. This isn't about lack of self control or a nervous habit. This is about a narcissist dad who exerts control with chinks in the armor he's found. Don't either one of you look back. Leave him with nothing but the sound of his effing pen click.

I have an irritation of my car mirrors flipping so that I can't see to drive with them. Ruins my mood.

The moment my ex discovered it, every time he fought with me, he'd flip my mirror if I was getting ready to leave. Then he'd wait til I walked around and fixed it, and do it again. 5-6 times.

I sat down to try to put some thoughts together to write his obituary, so that that’s one less thing to do. I instantly burst into chest-wracking sobs.

I lost my childhood best friend in January. I was still reeling from that when this nightmare with Geeba started.

I think I’m tired of letting go.