RESIST COMPARISON
Don't compare yourself to the people you should be learning from. Do not be intimidated by others. Be inspired. Do not let awareness fuel discontentment.
Let it inspire education and self development

If all you do this year is not give up — you've done enough. Growth is allowed to be a slow process

Christmas was beautiful.
The food was plenty.
Family was warm.

But as an introvert, fun doesn't always look loud to me. Sometimes it looks like stepping away. Taking me time. I loved being around family, but I also needed silence to breathe.

Then it hit me...the year is ending.

THE JUST WORLD FALLACY

Good is rewarded and evil is punished, that the world is just. But good is hardly ever rewarded and evil is hardly ever punished, on the contrary, evil gets rewarded, but does that mean you should be evil?

No!

Kindness isn't smiling through pain. It's not saying yes to everything.
Real kindness is balance—caring for others and yourself. It's saying no with love, forgiving fast, and meaning your "how are you?"
Small acts—big difference.

Life has a funny way of reminding you that you don't know as much as you think you do. I've been humbled by the things I thought I understood—relationships, patience, kindness, and even silence.

December has begun. Let's make it unforgettable.
This book took a piece of me. Writing it felt like surviving with Ogochukwu herself. I'm sharing her journey with the world.
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Selfishness hides in kindness until someone wants a favor