Ember (shi/hir)
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Ember (shi/hir)
@jql.digital
Accountant, hockey goalie, jackal, Speaker of Honeyed Truths.

Nonbinary transwoman, lesbian, disaster.
Yeah, I've been having the same issue.
December 25, 2025 at 12:04 AM
Might write it shi/hir/it/its so it doesn’t look like “shit”. Or might go for the silly one.
December 24, 2025 at 11:16 AM
You cannot keep yourself back, can ya?
December 21, 2025 at 9:34 PM
When I first came out as trans to my mom, she wanted to help the community. She joined this group, did it for years. Still so proud of her for that.
December 20, 2025 at 5:28 AM
Ahhh fluff. The downside is this kinda thing happens a bunch right after a name change. The good news is most places will update if you let them know and it’s sortable.
December 19, 2025 at 5:13 AM
No, that doesn't seem like cheating to me!
December 19, 2025 at 3:44 AM
That's what I've been trying to figure out for hours now. What land???
December 17, 2025 at 2:22 AM
Reposted by Ember (shi/hir)
Generative AI could have been incredibly useful, had it been ethically founded and trained, and not turned into a massive hype machine that destroys the foundation of all human learning and creativity.

As it stands, however, I consider it fundamentally unethical for use in any creative capacity.
December 16, 2025 at 10:07 PM
It really is the secret! Store bought pickles cannot compare to homemade for that reason alone.
December 16, 2025 at 2:55 AM
Gahhhhh!!! I'm so excited for you!!! <3 It's the best feeling.
December 12, 2025 at 2:02 AM
Nah. Your faces are different.
December 10, 2025 at 9:23 PM
Oh gosh the Mexican place we went to a couple weeks ago was this.
December 10, 2025 at 9:09 AM
If you end up on Maury, let us know!
December 9, 2025 at 8:32 AM
Good luck! Just remember: you ain’t paying nothing without a paternity test!
December 9, 2025 at 8:19 AM
Oh gosh. This happened to my mom once. They mistakenly attached her phone number to some out of state dad who wasn’t paying child support. But once she showed up to the court date, the folks there realized they had the wrong person pretty quick.
December 9, 2025 at 7:53 AM
Yes. Constantly. One of the most effective excuses ever.
December 8, 2025 at 8:41 PM