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Jay Campbell
@jscampbell14.bsky.social
🔞, they/he. I’m Leather, polyam, ace, and aego. I like books. Please infodump to me about Leather history.
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Hi friends! I’m an asexual Leatherperson, studying it academically and usually feeling imposter syndrome.

The aceness makes it hard to grab on to stuff I’m into, but if you associate with Leather, littles, or pups, (or our history) we’ll probably get along!

Mutuals are always free to DM✨
My first IML was very fun!! Now time to start my finals that were very much due on Friday😅
May 25, 2025 at 9:08 PM
Time for my first IML!!!
May 22, 2025 at 9:37 PM
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Realistic boycotting:

I analyzed my Amazon usage for the past three months. The amount I've spent is 1/8 what I used to spend. I say this because a drastic reduction of usage is also effective even if one doesn't boycott 100%. Amazon, Tesla, Target, Walmart, etc. The goal is to reduce purchases.
May 7, 2025 at 5:22 PM
I got my boots (specifically my four inch Harleys) blacked for the first time today!!!!
April 26, 2025 at 4:34 AM
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Thanks @pupamp.bsky.social. This is me
Am I Demisexual? - Coming Out 🖤💜🤍
YouTube video by Watts The Safeword
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April 6, 2025 at 11:11 PM
Reminder that two consenting adults can do whatever the hell they want
April 8, 2025 at 11:32 PM
Had to unfollow a drag queen I’ve seen perform and really liked because they went on an Insta story rampage being kinkshammy abt Littles and calling us [insert adjectives here i’m sure you can assume] :(
April 8, 2025 at 7:51 PM
i don’t know why i thought coming out as trans masc and also as asexual (with some masc attraction) would stop people’s decade-long quest of trying to define me as a lesbian, but apparently not
April 8, 2025 at 1:50 AM
“i have ten days to fuck around. until i find out, it’s free” -a brat, obviously
March 20, 2025 at 6:43 PM
i’m so behind on On Guard. i hope i have time to catch up soon (next week is spring break, so hopefully while i clean?)
March 10, 2025 at 6:36 AM
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Hello, are you an Asexual Leather elder (around 55+)? I’d love to speak with you!

To help record life histories for my master’s thesis, please fill out the form below!

Feel free to DM me with any questions, and share with your circles across platforms. Thank you!
February 21, 2025 at 10:35 PM
god i love leatherpeople
March 9, 2025 at 5:04 AM
i really hope there’s a day i feel more comfortable in queer (specifically leather-leaning) bars. it’s so weird being asexual in the kink scene to start with, and then i’m always one of the only femme presenting people there and i feel so misplaced in my own community🥰🥰 love to see it
March 2, 2025 at 12:37 AM
the gender tonight is life360 found me dead in the river
March 1, 2025 at 4:48 AM
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“Porn” is a public good.

“Porn” is the sign of a healthy, open society.

“Porn” is record of the diversity of sexual expression.

“Porn” brings people joy, access to parts of themselves that they may not have another way to express.

It’s worth defending on its own.
February 25, 2025 at 1:59 AM
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this comment just made all of conservatives’ weird and conflicting attitudes towards sex make sense to me
February 23, 2025 at 9:09 PM
i, too, struggle with same-sex attraction

(not bc i’m not gay, but bc i’m also asexual and thus just bad at it)
February 23, 2025 at 2:08 AM
Hello, are you an Asexual Leather elder (around 55+)? I’d love to speak with you!

To help record life histories for my master’s thesis, please fill out the form below!

Feel free to DM me with any questions, and share with your circles across platforms. Thank you!
February 21, 2025 at 10:35 PM
Not me using the hamburger method for this paper. I hope Roe would be proud

(Nowhere Ranch by Heidi Cullinan)
February 14, 2025 at 8:24 AM
once i got accused of fetishizing gay men and college and every day i get more and more trans and IM ALLOWED TO I AM A GAY BOY

…probably…

…the egg has not yet fully cracked…
February 12, 2025 at 4:09 AM
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If you’re a straight, cis person who has ever posted some version of a rainbow with “you’re safe with me” or similar, it’s time to back up the words with action— contact your reps and ask them what they’re going to do to protect trans people from this administration, particularly trans kids.
January 29, 2025 at 6:10 PM
Today I was asked my opinion on why Foucault was so obsessed with the idea of power (especially in a sexuality context).

I (very excitedly but very chill-y) got to tell him about 1. the link between BDSM and gay culture, and 2. that at least 1/3 of BDSM is an explicit play (and inversion) of power.
January 30, 2025 at 10:11 PM
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Friday is Gear Night @ The Museum, presented by our friends at @jackhammerchicago.bsky.social Leather, pups, ABDL, furries, rubber, coaches, athletes, fetishists....everyone is welcome in whatever gear you like! 6-9pm, lockers available to change if you need one. Snacks, music, socializing and more!
January 28, 2025 at 2:38 PM
God bless the Stonewall Archives for having a ton of magazines from the 70s, and hopefully the references to Asexuality (and possibly also asexuality tied to bdsm) that I’m looking for
January 28, 2025 at 4:32 PM
I’ve taken down the ToF art I had on my fridge. My current plan going forward is not to support the ToFF directly, but if I come across his art, to support the more denim/construction worker/plumber stuff but happily leave behind the cop/soldier/etc pieces
January 27, 2025 at 2:12 AM