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yaa voll, der Unterschied was gefragt wird ist glaub vor allem so n soziokultureller unterschied
aber kenn das mit pronomen genauso. andre queers zb checken meistens: irgendwie trans, aber nicht wie genau

hatte schon mehrmals die situation dass random menschen mich fragen ob ich junge oder mädchen bin weil sie sich mit wem anders drüber gestritten haben und nicht einig werden konnten lmao

that makes sense, in that yeah, using ur phone a lot - be it texting or social media - does include reading among other things, but mostly really short form. it requires a very different kind of attention, skipping between stuff constantly

like its definitely not just the pandemic or online class for me, though that does have an impact. second semester of online classes i managed quite well. Theres been periods in there where i did a lot of fanfic reading, too. but currently not at all, it takes every effort to finish my degree

gradual one! I couldn't say exactly when, but by the end of school i definitely was barely reading for fun anymore. first semester of university was tough but manageable, then the pandemic started and since then its overall gotten worse, though not linearly. stress definitely makes it harder

yeah, that makes sense. i find myself lucky enough to be in social circles where me taking anywhere between 1 and 30 days to reply to text is normal, but some things u just can't escape.

all the climate crisis and fascism and an ongoing but ignored pandemic stuff sure doesn't help either 😅

used to be an excellent reader as a child/teen.

now i have to force myself through anything longer than a page (audiobooks work a lot better if i find them interesting). Idk what changed. but exhaustion and anxiety definitely make it worse for me. like just the ability to concentrate i guess

im in general not the type of student you are talking about (and not from the us anyways) but i study literature and when i say i hate reading what i mean is definitely i have touble reading. which i find sad bc id love to read more. Its all the more frustrating bc im generally good w language and i

as a westerner i have wondered this every time ive walked by a wedding store. same goes for wedding suits tbh theyre always just a little more fancy but fundamentally boring ass normal suits

for now im stuck at twink-ish (not really) weird guy for dysphoria, disability and just visual body reasons but well get there. or somewhere else, things can change after all, im open to whatever haha

Being pretty and wearing skirts being fun, wanting to be a baby, and the non-binariness and rejection/redefinition of manhood from within manhood is what draws me to femboy.

apart from big belly hot what draws me to the latter is care and protection as key part of gendered identity, i think. but these days im often failing at those anyways.

gender thoughts this made me have:

im approximately a man, saying im a queer guy is sufficient for most contexts, but there are more nuanced details - apart from dog, theres two somewhat opposing genders i aspire to: femboy and bear.