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ken 🌙
@kenfoxley.bsky.social
29 - lesbian - they/them
So I really don’t have any desire to put myself through that. I’m like legitimately scared of surgery and that kind of pain. Also huge thing for me is I don’t like “unnecessary pain”
January 13, 2024 at 6:09 PM
I don’t have a desire for top surgery because honestly surgery just scares me and I’m not a fan of just sitting in pain, even if it’s temporary. The most I’ve ever had done was several gum grafts when I was younger and that was too much for me. Hell even my wisdom teeth surgery was too much -
January 13, 2024 at 6:07 PM
I had a bad feeling the website was sort of scammy, there were very few reviews on anything and it took like two and a half weeks to get here. But my wife helped me put it on and holy shit
January 13, 2024 at 5:46 PM
with you, I tell you and we talk about it, and the same goes for the other person, we talk about it if it’s that big of a deal. No hiding shit, no hiding behind “everything’s fine bro 🙂” like clearly it is not, and we talk. I’m done with stipulations and asterisks. Love me as I am, or not at all.
November 8, 2023 at 2:09 AM
and that’s okay, it’s life. But I’ve had too many friendships with stipulations and asterisks and “I won’t do this thing unless you do” situations. And the people I have in my life now? No stipulations. No asterisks. Our relationships are based on communication, and all love. If I have a problem —
November 8, 2023 at 2:07 AM
From 3 hours before. A real friend communicates if they do in fact want to keep you in their life, and if there are issues, if they’re a really, really good friend, y’all will talk it out. And if not, and they still were a good friend, not everything works out. People drift apart—
November 8, 2023 at 2:00 AM
A real friend doesn’t have stipulations or asterisks on what it means to be their friend, in fact, probably the only stipulation is communication most of the time. A real friend isn’t going to yell at you and make you feel bad for “not texting first” when you work 40+ weeks and you missed a text –
November 8, 2023 at 1:57 AM
does still exist in some peoples’ minds, and obviously still mine. I relied on others to determine my worth, to tell me how to be, how to act, how to be a “good friend” when being a good friend is just showing up for people, being what they need.
November 8, 2023 at 1:52 AM
KNOW love me, I think that’s true for a lot of people, but I no longer rely on strangers or toxic and suffocating people to determine my self worth. The person I was in 2020 is a completely different version of me that I am seriously not proud to remember. However, that’s still a version of me that–
November 8, 2023 at 1:49 AM
my value as a person, and I just don’t do that anymore. I no longer have suffocating relationships holding me back and making myself believe that I’m worth nothing if not for them. I value myself as a person, and yeah I still have some bad habits where I get upsetting thoughts about the people I –
November 8, 2023 at 1:47 AM