KiDLAB
@kidlab.bsky.social
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KiDLAB (PI: Eddie Brummelman) studies the developing self. We study the nature, origins, and consequences of children’s self-views. https://kidlab.nl/
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kidlab.bsky.social
BBC article on our work showing that having deep conversations with their parents can make children feel more loved. "Rather than just talking about leisure and work, the parents and kids spoke about topics that really matter."

www.bbc.com/future/artic...
The shortcut to close bonds? Asking meaningful questions
The right questions can help us connect with strangers – and create closer bonds between parents and children.
www.bbc.com
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😍KiDLAB at #ECDP2025 (eadp.bsky.social)! Hannah presented her work on entitlement. Eddie presented an overview of the lab’s ongoing work on how inequality becomes ingrained in children’s self-views. We met with many friends (on bsky: @lauraktaylorphd.bsky.social & @jelliesierksma.bsky.social).
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KiDLAB (kidlab.nl) is looking for a new lab manager! Are you a bachelor’s or master’s student in the NL and would you like to work with us? Please apply! You’ll help coordinate and carry out in-person research with children, parents, and teachers in the NL.

werkenbij.uva.nl/vacatures/st...
Vacature — Student-Assistent (Lab Manager) KiDLAB: Onderzoek naar Zelfbeeld en Ongelijkheid
Wil je assisteren in onderzoek naar zelfbeeld en kansenongelijkheid bij kinderen? Dan zoeken wij jou als student-assistent (lab manager) bij KiDLAB (https://kidlab.nl/).
werkenbij.uva.nl
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eadp.bsky.social
🚀Have you booked your travel?
💼Are you already packing your bags?

Only two more months until ECDP! Our keynotes🔽

August 26th
⏰Livio Provenzi & Michael Pluess

August 27th
⏰Rasa Barkauskienė & Geertjan Overbeek

August 28th
⏰Eddie Brummelman & Lukas Blinka

Program: www.ecdp2025vilnius.eu

#ECDP
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“Self-disclosure characterises loving, warm relationships, and those are, of course, critical for child development.”
Melissa Hogenboom hears from Eddie Brummelman how asking and answering personal questions can help children feel more loved. boldscience.org/how-parents-...
How parents can make their children feel more loved
Simply asking and answering personal questions can help
boldscience.org
kidlab.bsky.social
Illustrator Edwin Stoop captured children's dreams in real time. Things got existential:
🕳️ “I want to study a black hole… but what if I never come back?”
🍦 “Is a non-melting ice cream even possible?”
🌌 “Why do we live, and are we really alone?”

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Lil’Scientist - KiDLAB
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With Daudi van Veen (@daudivanveen.nl), Lena-Emilia Schenker, and Lynn Weisscher, children drew what they think a scientist looks like — sometimes resembling Harry Potter 🧙🏽‍♀️ — and explored how to break stereotypes. Their message was clear: They want the university to be a place for everyone.
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👽 “Everyone is welcome — yes, even aliens”
🦺 “No more dull, dusty white lab coats!”
🍕 “Beanbags everywhere, and pizza in the cafeteria”
What does the university of the future look like? On behalf of KiDLAB and Lil’Scientist, we asked children this question at the lustrum of The Young Academy.
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New publication!

Children get help all the time – but how it affects them is unclear. Eddie Brummelman @kidlab.bsky.social and I show that help can lead to negative self-views and reduced motivation in children (even the type of help that we often assume leads to mastery)
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doi.org/10.1111/cdev...
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Why does narcissism stick? You’d think life’s challenges would deflate inflated self-views—but narcissists often stay narcissistic. Focusing on the key age of adolescence, our paper suggests one reason: they frequently think about how they’re better than others.

www.cambridge.org/core/journal...
Better than you or who I used to be: Social comparison, but not temporal comparison, maintains narcissism in adolescence | Development and Psychopathology | Cambridge Core
Better than you or who I used to be: Social comparison, but not temporal comparison, maintains narcissism in adolescence
www.cambridge.org
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👑 Even children are drawn to narcissistic leaders. Here we show how this starts early—and why it matters.

🙏 Leadership is not fixed. Kids can learn to lead democratically, with purpose, and for the common good. Let's take leadership development seriously.

www.scientificamerican.com/article/why-...
Why Narcissists Emerge as Leaders Even in Childhood
Many children choose to follow peers with more narcissistic tendencies—and self-esteem may be part of the complex power dynamics involved
www.scientificamerican.com
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🟣 This is the fifteenth interview in the BOLD series on our special collection. Louise Elffers highlights why questioning how we define and measure inequality is key to impactful inter- and transdisciplinary research on educational inequality.
boldscience.org/the-growing-....
The growing science of educational inequality
Bringing together perspectives from different fields could help reduce inequality in education
boldscience.org
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😍KiDLAB at #SRCD2025! Our symposium explored how teachers can unintentionally reinforce classroom inequality—and why. Chaired by Lena-Emilia Schenker, with talks from Kelly Ziemer, Marianna Zhang (@mariannazhang.bsky.social), and Elise Kaufman, joined by Julia Leonard (@julia-a-leonard.bsky.social).
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🟣 This is the fourteenth interview in the BOLD series on our special collection. Marjolein Muskens emphasizes that education should promote empowerment and equality. Yet too often, the talents of students from disadvantaged backgrounds are overlooked:
boldscience.org/hidden-bias-....
Hidden bias in standardized tests
Low-SES students tend to score lower than expected on math items that refer to money, food, and social interactions
boldscience.org
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☯️ Who’s drawn to narcissistic leaders? KiDLAB research in American Psychologist shows that narcissistic leaders’ dominance and confidence mesh well with the submissiveness and insecurity of low self-esteem followers. Over time, this could create a toxic symbiosis.
🔗 psycnet.apa.org/record/2025-...
APA PsycNet
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🟣 This is the thirteenth interview in the BOLD series on our special collection. Lisa Bardach (University of Giessen) asks: Might students in lower-ranked tracks hold negative stereotypes about their track, with detrimental long-term effects on their success?

boldscience.org/childrens-aw...
Children’s awareness of stereotypes about school pathways
How do children think others view their path through school, and why does it matter?
boldscience.org
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🟣 This is the twelfth interview in the BOLD series on our special collection. Sébastien Goudeau (@sebastiengoudeau.bsky.social) discuss his work on how preschoolers see inequality in the classroom: boldscience.org/how-preschoo...
How preschoolers see inequality in the classroom
Children think those who contribute more in class are more interested and intelligent
boldscience.org
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Come work with us!

Eddie Brummelman @kidlab.bsky.social and I are looking for two PhD-students. Both projects are about the psychological impact of unequal treatment in the classroom.
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🟣 This is the eleventh interview in the BOLD series on our special collection. Allison Zengilowski and Irum Maqbool discuss their work showing that efforts to improve educational equality may inadvertently frame students as deficient rather than changing structures: boldscience.org/do-education....
Do educational interventions increase equality?
Focusing on individual students and ignoring structural factors may reinforce inequality
boldscience.org
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🟣 This is the tenth interview in the BOLD series on our special collection. Eddie Brummelman discusses KiDLAB research on why children from disadvantaged backgrounds often receive seemingly well-intentioned but disabling messages from teachers, like inflated praise:
boldscience.org/inflated-pra....
Inflated praise can reinforce stereotypes
However well-intentioned, it can send the wrong message
boldscience.org
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Hi @nataliebrito.bsky.social, would you be able to add us as well? We'd really appreciate it—many thanks!
kidlab.bsky.social
🟣 This is the ninth interview in the BOLD series on our special collection. Hanna Dumont explains when and why personalized learning—adapting instruction to students’ individual needs—may reduce or ironically exacerbate achievement inequality.

boldscience.org/can-personal....
Can personalized learning increase educational equity?
If not implemented well, personalized learning technologies risk harming the most disadvantaged students
boldscience.org