Aw thank you! 💙🥰

Omg it so was 🥶😭😂

Omg lip scrub is my ultimate savior 🙏

But also yesss do some hypnosis with light glove shit. That will pop off for sure!!!

That's how it goes! Ngl this work can take 3 to 5 years to find your steady client base, unless you came from another genre and had a following there.

Ultimately just remember it's about constant output balanced with your health. A couple months on, a month off, etc.

God this is a serious winter problem for me. Trying to get better at face-in content when this happens.

Healing vibes! 💙

Always gotta call a girl in blue a good girl 💙

The point is this.

Tolerance goes both ways.

If they can't tolerate your needs as a marginalized person, you don't have to tolerate theirs.

You'll back them up in a fight no question.

But you don't have to live with them.

So doing less people pleasing now, and that makes me a narcissistic bitch apparently. Someone who "arm chair diagnosis", and totally doesn't just want people to be self aware. (Years of therapy, study, interviews, pattern recognition, & personal experience are bunk obviously.)

To be perfectly clear, this is not "I've got mine", this is "Your own mask first"

Too often I have felt unsafe in my living space because I wanted to help someone, who took full advantage of my help, drained me completely, only to blame me as the badguy when I couldn't handle it anymore.

Just because someone is "othered" does not mean you have to respect their opinions or respect their state of mind. It does not mean you have to cater to their needs, wants, and desires. Just because they might seem worse off in the moment, doesn't mean you have to do without.

Ok fair, I do follow alot of furry artists but I am not as aware of the tagging bias there. Ultimately though if the artist markets themselves as nsfw in the first place, but you only want a sfw slice of them because of a stranger's opinion (nope not consent, they violated yours) then that's on you

The algorithm tags my stuff instantly if I get it wrong. So I don't know how you're seeing stuff wrongly tagged, unless you think some things are pornographic that actually aren't. Which is a common modern puritan mistake.