Holy crap some people really just need to stay in their own lane on things like this. Not okay at all. Sorry you have to deal with those kinds of people on top of everything else.

How do you mourn someone you knew but can't remember? This is the part of the adhd lack of object permanence that can be so frustrating and painful. It's only been 2 years...I should remember these people and yet so many of them I can't... how can it be so easy to forget them?