Darius Quebec 🏳️‍⚧️
@ksej.bsky.social
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Trans, mental, trying to write more, gestational dad to xCLP and Scunthorpe United until one of us dies. Now with a Ko-fi https://ko-fi.com/ksej2610
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They don't (often) say it explicitly, but much of what they say makes zero sense unless you take it as a base assumption
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Autocorrect keeps trying to turn penis into punishment. Studied no comment
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They think of a vagina as essentially the absence of a penis. And "thinks men can lack a penis" isn't much of an attack
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If the bar for doing a thing is "does it beat fascism", I have some bad news for Dallas about that tweet
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That was the interesting fact they tagged us with at the draw as well, which makes me wonder why people are talking about it all of a sudden. Or maybe it's just that we've sunk without a trace in recent FA Cups so it hasn't come up
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www.thefa.com/news/2025/oc... I didn't think we'd be in this, as a very ordinary tie between National League and National League North, but apparently someone has looked up our record breaking shootout from 2014
FA Cup fourth round qualifying preview
Five things to look out for in the Emirates FA Cup fourth round qualifying
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When you're used to unquestioned 100% domination, I guess it is a culture shock for someone else to have any say at all
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And that's why "born this way" is not a particularly great justification. We should have rights because bodily autonomy and free expression, whether we were born this way or just took it up one day for funsies
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Asked my sibling for help and they're offering what feels like peer support. I don't want peer support. I want someone with more sense than me to step in and sort everything 😭
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If all bodies are sexual, that implies you're only ever aware of your own body in a sexual context, which is pretty pitiful
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Given her history, Jaren Karen should know this better than anyone, and yet she makes the choice to erase it from discussion
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The more they get their way, the more they narrow the definition of "real females". My one consolation is that eventually they'll turn these definitions on each other
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45 minute wait between buses so I've gone for a cup of tea. Apparently if you order Earl Grey with lemon, they put the lemon in the pot with the teabag? I can't articulate why that isn't right other than I'm not used to it, but that's reason enough to find it disconcerting
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You can't read anything into that, she's just not a very good writer
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I handled it very badly, but I don't think there is a good way to handle someone being that far away from reality
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It's been six months and I still can't get over how he said I should be more scared of Muslims stoning me than the right wing taking away my health care and not two weeks later the government decided I should be banned from taking a shit
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Shout out to the house in Scotter flying the progress pride flag from a flagpole on the building
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Also, what bigger issues? Bigger than bodily autonomy and freedom of expression? Bigger than fighting back against the scapegoating of a minority? Struggling to see it
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"Are you enjoying this?" No but I'm worried you'll throw an even more exhausting sulk if I say so
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They do it really badly and then expect you to praise them for it. It's exhausting
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Typical torygraph attitude though. "It shouldn't be illegal when we do it"
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I read that part as just that navigating officialdom in a language you're not fluent in is really daunting. But a) we brought it on ourselves with Brexit and b) this should lead to empathy for immigrants here, not a demand that we be made the exception
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I read an article about packing for a flight to save space that recommended some premium ear buds instead of noise cancelling headphones and I'm thinking the space saving is really not worth it there
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The replica Wembley shirt @lucypaw.bsky.social gave me has had a successful debut
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Cancelling a fraction is what we call reducing it to its simplest form and I just thought it made a funny pun