Lanceii
@lanceii.bsky.social
INFJ. Boston. Join me as I combat a general malaise by inconsistently sharing non sequiturs when I want attention.
2025: My year in scarves
This year I cut the bullshit and started living my "The Green Ribbon" fantasy.
I covered 25% of the earth's circumference and my neck skin.
This year I cut the bullshit and started living my "The Green Ribbon" fantasy.
I covered 25% of the earth's circumference and my neck skin.
December 30, 2025 at 1:56 PM
2025: My year in scarves
This year I cut the bullshit and started living my "The Green Ribbon" fantasy.
I covered 25% of the earth's circumference and my neck skin.
This year I cut the bullshit and started living my "The Green Ribbon" fantasy.
I covered 25% of the earth's circumference and my neck skin.
Welp. I realized a month or so ago I was still reading my book from April and wouldn't be making my reading goal for the year. However, I finished that and two more books to get me to my 50% of goal mark. Still feels like a win when I hadn't read for several years before last year. Onto the next 🌈📚
December 30, 2025 at 1:49 PM
Welp. I realized a month or so ago I was still reading my book from April and wouldn't be making my reading goal for the year. However, I finished that and two more books to get me to my 50% of goal mark. Still feels like a win when I hadn't read for several years before last year. Onto the next 🌈📚
Celebrated the 30th anniversary of crying myself to sleep on my 7th birthday because I was getting old. Buckle up, kiddo.
May 17, 2025 at 4:39 AM
Celebrated the 30th anniversary of crying myself to sleep on my 7th birthday because I was getting old. Buckle up, kiddo.
The force is strong with me. Mando's handler asked everyone "Francais? English?" but to me he just said "Bonjour, Francais?"
Each time I was mistaken for a local was :: chef's kiss ::
And then I opened my mouth.
#maythe4thbewithyou #disneylandparis
#LeBébéYoda
#LanceInFrance
Each time I was mistaken for a local was :: chef's kiss ::
And then I opened my mouth.
#maythe4thbewithyou #disneylandparis
#LeBébéYoda
#LanceInFrance
May 4, 2025 at 2:14 PM
The force is strong with me. Mando's handler asked everyone "Francais? English?" but to me he just said "Bonjour, Francais?"
Each time I was mistaken for a local was :: chef's kiss ::
And then I opened my mouth.
#maythe4thbewithyou #disneylandparis
#LeBébéYoda
#LanceInFrance
Each time I was mistaken for a local was :: chef's kiss ::
And then I opened my mouth.
#maythe4thbewithyou #disneylandparis
#LeBébéYoda
#LanceInFrance
"The beauty one finds alone is a prayer that longs to be shared" (imagine this is set to Miley's "Prelude")
Also, I cried 5 times during the final 12 hours because I love #Paris so much.
I'm so grateful to @yonka.paris for this once in a lifetime experience.
#LanceInFrance
Also, I cried 5 times during the final 12 hours because I love #Paris so much.
I'm so grateful to @yonka.paris for this once in a lifetime experience.
#LanceInFrance
May 4, 2025 at 2:07 PM
"The beauty one finds alone is a prayer that longs to be shared" (imagine this is set to Miley's "Prelude")
Also, I cried 5 times during the final 12 hours because I love #Paris so much.
I'm so grateful to @yonka.paris for this once in a lifetime experience.
#LanceInFrance
Also, I cried 5 times during the final 12 hours because I love #Paris so much.
I'm so grateful to @yonka.paris for this once in a lifetime experience.
#LanceInFrance
- florals for spring
- a gorgeous rainbow after a long day
- my endless planning and research for Paris (less than a week now 😳)
- a gorgeous rainbow after a long day
- my endless planning and research for Paris (less than a week now 😳)
April 20, 2025 at 11:13 AM
- florals for spring
- a gorgeous rainbow after a long day
- my endless planning and research for Paris (less than a week now 😳)
- a gorgeous rainbow after a long day
- my endless planning and research for Paris (less than a week now 😳)
- a mossy plant ball from my mom
- shirts for the outreach group initiative I started at work to empower & help facilitate employees to engage with the community & fundraise for causes they're passionate about arrived (a day late).
- Boston Common Magazine with my 1st photo credit in print(?)
- shirts for the outreach group initiative I started at work to empower & help facilitate employees to engage with the community & fundraise for causes they're passionate about arrived (a day late).
- Boston Common Magazine with my 1st photo credit in print(?)
April 20, 2025 at 11:13 AM
- a mossy plant ball from my mom
- shirts for the outreach group initiative I started at work to empower & help facilitate employees to engage with the community & fundraise for causes they're passionate about arrived (a day late).
- Boston Common Magazine with my 1st photo credit in print(?)
- shirts for the outreach group initiative I started at work to empower & help facilitate employees to engage with the community & fundraise for causes they're passionate about arrived (a day late).
- Boston Common Magazine with my 1st photo credit in print(?)
- an early Easter at my mom's with Jello eggs & niblings (not sure how I felt about the weird underwear stuffing game my mom bought, but the kids liked it)
- @timtam82.bsky.social's charcuterie board
- @timtam82.bsky.social's charcuterie board
April 20, 2025 at 11:13 AM
- an early Easter at my mom's with Jello eggs & niblings (not sure how I felt about the weird underwear stuffing game my mom bought, but the kids liked it)
- @timtam82.bsky.social's charcuterie board
- @timtam82.bsky.social's charcuterie board
A few things that got me through this week:
- a chilly day at Brimfield Brewfest warmed up by my double puzzle piece winner, Flying Fox Brewing's Strawberry Jalepeno Sour, Lolita, and a night at the lake with the Sharecuterie Crew (@timtam82.bsky.social)
- a man named Ray thinks I'm wonderful
- a chilly day at Brimfield Brewfest warmed up by my double puzzle piece winner, Flying Fox Brewing's Strawberry Jalepeno Sour, Lolita, and a night at the lake with the Sharecuterie Crew (@timtam82.bsky.social)
- a man named Ray thinks I'm wonderful
April 20, 2025 at 11:13 AM
A few things that got me through this week:
- a chilly day at Brimfield Brewfest warmed up by my double puzzle piece winner, Flying Fox Brewing's Strawberry Jalepeno Sour, Lolita, and a night at the lake with the Sharecuterie Crew (@timtam82.bsky.social)
- a man named Ray thinks I'm wonderful
- a chilly day at Brimfield Brewfest warmed up by my double puzzle piece winner, Flying Fox Brewing's Strawberry Jalepeno Sour, Lolita, and a night at the lake with the Sharecuterie Crew (@timtam82.bsky.social)
- a man named Ray thinks I'm wonderful
- David from Survivor 48
- Kylie. Minogue.
- 'Slow' getting the 'Skirt' treatment (my entry song as an actual fan mixed with one of my favorite songs (an opinion!))
- Kylie. Minogue.
- 'Slow' getting the 'Skirt' treatment (my entry song as an actual fan mixed with one of my favorite songs (an opinion!))
April 13, 2025 at 3:10 PM
- David from Survivor 48
- Kylie. Minogue.
- 'Slow' getting the 'Skirt' treatment (my entry song as an actual fan mixed with one of my favorite songs (an opinion!))
- Kylie. Minogue.
- 'Slow' getting the 'Skirt' treatment (my entry song as an actual fan mixed with one of my favorite songs (an opinion!))
- getting my first new phone in several years
- the new phone camera (see daffodil comparison), although my old phone was kinder with selfies.
- my fountain is back
- the new phone camera (see daffodil comparison), although my old phone was kinder with selfies.
- my fountain is back
April 13, 2025 at 3:10 PM
- getting my first new phone in several years
- the new phone camera (see daffodil comparison), although my old phone was kinder with selfies.
- my fountain is back
- the new phone camera (see daffodil comparison), although my old phone was kinder with selfies.
- my fountain is back
- finally going to IKEA to get a new pillow
- Leaving IKEA with upgraded furniture because a shelf I've had for over a decade was about to collapse
- Leaving IKEA with upgraded furniture because a shelf I've had for over a decade was about to collapse
April 13, 2025 at 3:10 PM
- finally going to IKEA to get a new pillow
- Leaving IKEA with upgraded furniture because a shelf I've had for over a decade was about to collapse
- Leaving IKEA with upgraded furniture because a shelf I've had for over a decade was about to collapse
Things this week:
- 50k on the common (biggest rally I've seen)
- shybird irl (sb dunks!)
- an artist asking if he can draw me (first time since 2007! What have you all been waiting for?!)
- first trip to Costco (I should have been mic'd)
- 50k on the common (biggest rally I've seen)
- shybird irl (sb dunks!)
- an artist asking if he can draw me (first time since 2007! What have you all been waiting for?!)
- first trip to Costco (I should have been mic'd)
April 13, 2025 at 3:10 PM
Things this week:
- 50k on the common (biggest rally I've seen)
- shybird irl (sb dunks!)
- an artist asking if he can draw me (first time since 2007! What have you all been waiting for?!)
- first trip to Costco (I should have been mic'd)
- 50k on the common (biggest rally I've seen)
- shybird irl (sb dunks!)
- an artist asking if he can draw me (first time since 2007! What have you all been waiting for?!)
- first trip to Costco (I should have been mic'd)
- Robert Irwin
- French
- my therapist pointing out he's recognized the breakthrough I sensed a couple weeks ago 🥳
- French
- my therapist pointing out he's recognized the breakthrough I sensed a couple weeks ago 🥳
April 6, 2025 at 1:14 PM
- Robert Irwin
- French
- my therapist pointing out he's recognized the breakthrough I sensed a couple weeks ago 🥳
- French
- my therapist pointing out he's recognized the breakthrough I sensed a couple weeks ago 🥳
- 'Queer' being on max
- being told that scene at the end was one of the most me things on film (true.)
- finally drinking the hot chocolate we put out to have on Xmas
- starting April by rereading this children's book about Titanic I loved as a gayby (needed something lighter after CMBYM & Queer)
- being told that scene at the end was one of the most me things on film (true.)
- finally drinking the hot chocolate we put out to have on Xmas
- starting April by rereading this children's book about Titanic I loved as a gayby (needed something lighter after CMBYM & Queer)
April 6, 2025 at 1:14 PM
- 'Queer' being on max
- being told that scene at the end was one of the most me things on film (true.)
- finally drinking the hot chocolate we put out to have on Xmas
- starting April by rereading this children's book about Titanic I loved as a gayby (needed something lighter after CMBYM & Queer)
- being told that scene at the end was one of the most me things on film (true.)
- finally drinking the hot chocolate we put out to have on Xmas
- starting April by rereading this children's book about Titanic I loved as a gayby (needed something lighter after CMBYM & Queer)
A few things that got me through this week:
- Brighter Days Ahead (album + literally)
- Act 1 of Miley's 'Something Beautiful'
- Breakfast for dinner
- Mickey waffles
- the trees in Back Bay in bloom
- a coworker giving me an apple turnover + the opportunity to send a Golden Girls joke to @timtam82
- Brighter Days Ahead (album + literally)
- Act 1 of Miley's 'Something Beautiful'
- Breakfast for dinner
- Mickey waffles
- the trees in Back Bay in bloom
- a coworker giving me an apple turnover + the opportunity to send a Golden Girls joke to @timtam82
April 6, 2025 at 1:14 PM
A few things that got me through this week:
- Brighter Days Ahead (album + literally)
- Act 1 of Miley's 'Something Beautiful'
- Breakfast for dinner
- Mickey waffles
- the trees in Back Bay in bloom
- a coworker giving me an apple turnover + the opportunity to send a Golden Girls joke to @timtam82
- Brighter Days Ahead (album + literally)
- Act 1 of Miley's 'Something Beautiful'
- Breakfast for dinner
- Mickey waffles
- the trees in Back Bay in bloom
- a coworker giving me an apple turnover + the opportunity to send a Golden Girls joke to @timtam82
Things that got me through this week: For most of the week, not much! But made it through with the first blooms appearing on the trees, 2 mois des leçons Français chaque jour, buying the correct size frame for "the Swallows," another bottle of whiskey, and filling out my luggage tags (< 1 month🇫🇷)
March 31, 2025 at 2:40 AM
Things that got me through this week: For most of the week, not much! But made it through with the first blooms appearing on the trees, 2 mois des leçons Français chaque jour, buying the correct size frame for "the Swallows," another bottle of whiskey, and filling out my luggage tags (< 1 month🇫🇷)
- Buying @patrickwolf.music-social.com.ap.brid.gy tickets as my first purchase on my first credit card
- Tim pointing at a wall that said "DiCK NASTY" & asking, did you write that?
- Tim pointing at a wall that said "DiCK NASTY" & asking, did you write that?
March 22, 2025 at 1:30 PM
- Buying @patrickwolf.music-social.com.ap.brid.gy tickets as my first purchase on my first credit card
- Tim pointing at a wall that said "DiCK NASTY" & asking, did you write that?
- Tim pointing at a wall that said "DiCK NASTY" & asking, did you write that?
A few things that got me through the week:
-Framing art from one of my favorite queer artists @allantics.bsky.social (got the wrong size for the @dovegraveyard.bsky.social piece 🤡)
- taking advantage of a beautiful day to clean/rearrange the back porch/ yard in preparation for future beautiful days
-Framing art from one of my favorite queer artists @allantics.bsky.social (got the wrong size for the @dovegraveyard.bsky.social piece 🤡)
- taking advantage of a beautiful day to clean/rearrange the back porch/ yard in preparation for future beautiful days
March 22, 2025 at 1:30 PM
A few things that got me through the week:
-Framing art from one of my favorite queer artists @allantics.bsky.social (got the wrong size for the @dovegraveyard.bsky.social piece 🤡)
- taking advantage of a beautiful day to clean/rearrange the back porch/ yard in preparation for future beautiful days
-Framing art from one of my favorite queer artists @allantics.bsky.social (got the wrong size for the @dovegraveyard.bsky.social piece 🤡)
- taking advantage of a beautiful day to clean/rearrange the back porch/ yard in preparation for future beautiful days
An odd, uneven blip of a book that had the emotional bones that Luca was able to cover in flesh (literally) for the film. It was interesting to see how Luca curated Burroughs' fragmented manuscript... 🌈📚
March 16, 2025 at 9:27 PM
An odd, uneven blip of a book that had the emotional bones that Luca was able to cover in flesh (literally) for the film. It was interesting to see how Luca curated Burroughs' fragmented manuscript... 🌈📚
Realized I didn't share last week's poem.
I think this is my most succinct expression of experiencing anxious attachment.
[Photo of Doris Selcedo's Untitled, 1989]
I think this is my most succinct expression of experiencing anxious attachment.
[Photo of Doris Selcedo's Untitled, 1989]
March 15, 2025 at 11:47 PM
Realized I didn't share last week's poem.
I think this is my most succinct expression of experiencing anxious attachment.
[Photo of Doris Selcedo's Untitled, 1989]
I think this is my most succinct expression of experiencing anxious attachment.
[Photo of Doris Selcedo's Untitled, 1989]
A few things that got me through the week:
- a night of Sum Light at Drawdown Brewing in JP with Steph & Tim
- Springing forward
- @dazza.bsky.social coming for breakfast
- Booking a trip to Ogunquit
- Leaving work before sunset
- a night of Sum Light at Drawdown Brewing in JP with Steph & Tim
- Springing forward
- @dazza.bsky.social coming for breakfast
- Booking a trip to Ogunquit
- Leaving work before sunset
March 15, 2025 at 11:37 PM
A few things that got me through the week:
- a night of Sum Light at Drawdown Brewing in JP with Steph & Tim
- Springing forward
- @dazza.bsky.social coming for breakfast
- Booking a trip to Ogunquit
- Leaving work before sunset
- a night of Sum Light at Drawdown Brewing in JP with Steph & Tim
- Springing forward
- @dazza.bsky.social coming for breakfast
- Booking a trip to Ogunquit
- Leaving work before sunset
A few things that got me through the week:
- Dancing to fka twigs in mom's old jazzercise unitard
- Jade's cover of my fav Madonna song
- this smokey whiskey
- a 98 year old book Tim bought, "The Gay Nineties," of gorgeous illustrations & humorous social commentary
- warmer weather & later sunsets
- Dancing to fka twigs in mom's old jazzercise unitard
- Jade's cover of my fav Madonna song
- this smokey whiskey
- a 98 year old book Tim bought, "The Gay Nineties," of gorgeous illustrations & humorous social commentary
- warmer weather & later sunsets
March 8, 2025 at 8:54 PM
A few things that got me through the week:
- Dancing to fka twigs in mom's old jazzercise unitard
- Jade's cover of my fav Madonna song
- this smokey whiskey
- a 98 year old book Tim bought, "The Gay Nineties," of gorgeous illustrations & humorous social commentary
- warmer weather & later sunsets
- Dancing to fka twigs in mom's old jazzercise unitard
- Jade's cover of my fav Madonna song
- this smokey whiskey
- a 98 year old book Tim bought, "The Gay Nineties," of gorgeous illustrations & humorous social commentary
- warmer weather & later sunsets