it’s delicate
@lavendermoon70.bsky.social
welcome to the dive bar on the east side. they/them, elder millennial, gaylor, #1 delicate fan, very left.
They really are! And I love that the block lists for hetlors are so effective that I’ve never had to interact with a single one!
October 13, 2025 at 8:55 PM
They really are! And I love that the block lists for hetlors are so effective that I’ve never had to interact with a single one!
Plus just like Bluesky users seem so much more positive and open to a lot of different interpretations & critique of Taylor than the Reddit community
October 13, 2025 at 8:52 PM
Plus just like Bluesky users seem so much more positive and open to a lot of different interpretations & critique of Taylor than the Reddit community
It chills my desire to post there bc all of that makes me feel like I can’t post freely without risking my access to the sub and/or being attacked/shouted down
October 13, 2025 at 8:51 PM
It chills my desire to post there bc all of that makes me feel like I can’t post freely without risking my access to the sub and/or being attacked/shouted down
Mainly the Gaylor sub, the attitude of mods toward anything that doesn’t agree with their personal beliefs about Taylor & Gaylor, the way it feels almost expected to believe in mass movement/performance art, the way certain ships are treated vs Kaylor, and weirdly hostile users…
October 13, 2025 at 8:51 PM
Mainly the Gaylor sub, the attitude of mods toward anything that doesn’t agree with their personal beliefs about Taylor & Gaylor, the way it feels almost expected to believe in mass movement/performance art, the way certain ships are treated vs Kaylor, and weirdly hostile users…
Yeah that was a huge bummer to see. Like, I’ve only been on the Gaylor train since 2023 and I independently looked at all the ships and thought “yeah Tily seems real.” I’m not conspiring. There’s a ton of Tily posts on here bc people feel safe to post here, unlike on the sub.
October 13, 2025 at 4:49 PM
Yeah that was a huge bummer to see. Like, I’ve only been on the Gaylor train since 2023 and I independently looked at all the ships and thought “yeah Tily seems real.” I’m not conspiring. There’s a ton of Tily posts on here bc people feel safe to post here, unlike on the sub.
It really really did. Also, I’d love to see your TT!
October 13, 2025 at 4:29 PM
It really really did. Also, I’d love to see your TT!
For the record, I do think Dianna, Karlie and Lily were all with Taylor at some point.
October 13, 2025 at 4:24 PM
For the record, I do think Dianna, Karlie and Lily were all with Taylor at some point.
I woke up and chose violence, apparently, but I said what I said.
October 13, 2025 at 4:21 PM
I woke up and chose violence, apparently, but I said what I said.
I’m betting it’s the same for Swiftgrons. And then the mods complain about being seen as Kaylors. This is why, y’all. Because they’re the only shippers, somehow, that are allowed to post in the sub, even though their behavior is the most egregious by far against anyone who disagrees.
October 13, 2025 at 4:21 PM
I’m betting it’s the same for Swiftgrons. And then the mods complain about being seen as Kaylors. This is why, y’all. Because they’re the only shippers, somehow, that are allowed to post in the sub, even though their behavior is the most egregious by far against anyone who disagrees.
So if you ever wonder why no one ever posts about Tily on the Gaylor sub, it’s because the mods have made it very explicitly not a safe space for us. They suppress our posts claiming they’ll be too challenging to mod (bc of Kaylor behavior, btw), but Kaylors get to post abt eye theory in 2025? Ok 🙄
October 13, 2025 at 4:21 PM
So if you ever wonder why no one ever posts about Tily on the Gaylor sub, it’s because the mods have made it very explicitly not a safe space for us. They suppress our posts claiming they’ll be too challenging to mod (bc of Kaylor behavior, btw), but Kaylors get to post abt eye theory in 2025? Ok 🙄
They really just don’t understand what making art and being creative is like do they.
August 19, 2025 at 7:43 PM
They really just don’t understand what making art and being creative is like do they.
How do you not…see…what is literally happening in front of you…there was no subtext…🤦♀️
August 19, 2025 at 7:40 PM
How do you not…see…what is literally happening in front of you…there was no subtext…🤦♀️
Tily Tuesday!! I live!!
August 19, 2025 at 7:37 PM
Tily Tuesday!! I live!!
Right?? Like it’s soooo obvious her mom isn’t thinking of country music as the reason her daughter feels like an outsider!!
August 19, 2025 at 12:58 PM
Right?? Like it’s soooo obvious her mom isn’t thinking of country music as the reason her daughter feels like an outsider!!
“Yeah honey the other kids are just teasing you bc you love country music”
No, they were probably teasing her about her special interest. Bc the degree to which she loved country music and talked about it and pursued her dream of making it was too much. What a familiar feeling that is.
No, they were probably teasing her about her special interest. Bc the degree to which she loved country music and talked about it and pursued her dream of making it was too much. What a familiar feeling that is.
August 19, 2025 at 5:42 AM
“Yeah honey the other kids are just teasing you bc you love country music”
No, they were probably teasing her about her special interest. Bc the degree to which she loved country music and talked about it and pursued her dream of making it was too much. What a familiar feeling that is.
No, they were probably teasing her about her special interest. Bc the degree to which she loved country music and talked about it and pursued her dream of making it was too much. What a familiar feeling that is.