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@letsbeforeal.bsky.social
🗣️Speak on it!
You can't control :
1. The past
2. The world
3. Other people

You can control:
1. Your thoughts
2. Your actions
3. Your beliefs
December 19, 2024 at 2:04 AM
Loneliness Will Teach You the Most: Being single, spending time alone, or navigating transitions may feel isolating, but it’s in those moments you’ll find clarity about who you are and what you want. Learn to love your own company—it’s the foundation for attracting the right people. ✨
December 16, 2024 at 9:58 PM
✨ Healing is a Full-Time Job: By now, you’ve realized that healing isn’t just crying it out or “moving on.” It’s setting boundaries with people you love, forgiving yourself for past mistakes, and unlearning habits that don’t serve you. It’s uncomfortable, but it’s the only way to unlock your peace.
December 16, 2024 at 9:57 PM
Mental health check:

Did you wash yo ass last night?
December 7, 2024 at 3:08 PM
Mental health check:

Did you brush wash your face and brush your teeth this morning?
December 7, 2024 at 3:07 PM
Be careful what music you digest on the the daily. Just like food, you will become what you ingest.
December 7, 2024 at 3:06 PM
Music heals the soul.
December 7, 2024 at 3:05 PM
What are 3 things you are grateful for today?

#bluesky
December 7, 2024 at 3:03 PM
Grand rising✨

#blacksky
December 7, 2024 at 2:40 PM
Food for thought:

It’s very rare to have an authentic 20+ year solid friendship without hate, jealously and envious. Cherish your solid friends. 💯

#letsbeforeal #blacksky
December 7, 2024 at 4:19 AM
Cuss a bitch out if you have too. 💯

- Self love

#letsbeforeal
December 7, 2024 at 4:13 AM
If you really love them… you would let them go. 💯

#letsbeforeal
December 7, 2024 at 4:11 AM
You can’t keep blaming everything childhood trauma at this grown age.

- Shadow work

#blacksky
December 6, 2024 at 11:42 PM
Do not have children if:

1. You do not have at least two years worth of monthly bills saved.
December 6, 2024 at 3:46 PM
Shadow work can be very painful but you will love and respect yourself more for doing it in the end. 💯
December 6, 2024 at 3:44 PM
If they can love on you in private they can also love on you in public. 💯
December 6, 2024 at 3:42 PM
Remember chin up, chest out! You got this! 💪🏾

#confidence
December 6, 2024 at 3:41 PM
I love everything about you from your nappy curls✨

- Beyoncé

#BrownSkinGirl #BrownSkinBoy #Beyoncé #Beehive
December 6, 2024 at 3:34 PM
Believe them when they first show you or tell you who they are. You will thank yourself later. 💯

#Transformation #LifeLessons #Advice
December 6, 2024 at 3:20 PM
The change starts with you. 💯

#Transformation #Goals #2025
December 6, 2024 at 3:19 PM
Treat yourself how you want the rest of the world to treat you. 💯
December 6, 2024 at 3:15 PM
Advice for people in their 20s:

1. You should be having fun and learning who the real you are. Not the person that you had to become for survival or who your parents wanted you to be.
December 6, 2024 at 3:08 PM
Grandparents are toxic as well. For the sake of your mental, physical and emotional well-being, cut them off. 💯

- Respectfully, Self love
December 6, 2024 at 3:01 PM
Stop pouring all of that energy into everybody else and pour it all into yourself. You will thank yourself later. 💯

- Self love
December 6, 2024 at 2:57 PM
If you notice that there is a repeated negative cycle… Fix it now.💯
December 6, 2024 at 2:50 PM