Heather
@lightbulbs4.bsky.social
53, mom of college student and middle aged little dog, live in Midwest college town, mental health client/student/advocate, healer, liberal, chaotic sense of humor, Buddhist, witchy, new thought, single, yoga, dog parks, shadowy. Born in the wrong place.
Imagining AOC going full on Haka in congress.
November 28, 2024 at 8:25 PM
Imagining AOC going full on Haka in congress.
I urge you to please do all your shopping online from small businesses. Don't drive while in a Xmas frenzy. Don't try to operate a shopping cart. If you must go out, please take an Uber. Bring a non Xmas friend with you to keep you from blocking the aisles while staring into space.
November 28, 2024 at 5:35 PM
I urge you to please do all your shopping online from small businesses. Don't drive while in a Xmas frenzy. Don't try to operate a shopping cart. If you must go out, please take an Uber. Bring a non Xmas friend with you to keep you from blocking the aisles while staring into space.
Questioning all my life decisions including even coming to this janky planet.
November 24, 2024 at 10:44 PM
Questioning all my life decisions including even coming to this janky planet.
Have we heard yet from any of the countries that don't let felons in if they will let shit head in?
November 24, 2024 at 5:55 PM
Have we heard yet from any of the countries that don't let felons in if they will let shit head in?
My 19 month soberversary was an incredibly hard day and I was close to throwing in the towel but I made it. Mostly because I went to bed super early. Thank the goddesses for sleep.
November 24, 2024 at 3:22 AM
My 19 month soberversary was an incredibly hard day and I was close to throwing in the towel but I made it. Mostly because I went to bed super early. Thank the goddesses for sleep.
The Ref with Kevin Spacey and Dennis Leary is the best Xmas movie. Fight me.
November 24, 2024 at 3:01 AM
The Ref with Kevin Spacey and Dennis Leary is the best Xmas movie. Fight me.
If your entire interaction with someone consists of them typing on a machine while they are pooping, watching corn, or god knows what and they won't meet you, zoom w you or talk on the phone, drop them. I don't care if you have a soul connection. That is an avoidant's wet dream.
November 24, 2024 at 2:58 AM
If your entire interaction with someone consists of them typing on a machine while they are pooping, watching corn, or god knows what and they won't meet you, zoom w you or talk on the phone, drop them. I don't care if you have a soul connection. That is an avoidant's wet dream.
Wondering what Bernie is going to wear for the inauguration.
November 24, 2024 at 2:54 AM
Wondering what Bernie is going to wear for the inauguration.
Remembering when my coworkers were complaining about Obama being so awful then being the first ones to sign their adult children up under their health insurance when Obama made that happen.
November 24, 2024 at 2:44 AM
Remembering when my coworkers were complaining about Obama being so awful then being the first ones to sign their adult children up under their health insurance when Obama made that happen.
This is sometimes what keeps me from unaliving myself. And the thought that I might be able to visit his grave and spit on it.
November 24, 2024 at 2:40 AM
This is sometimes what keeps me from unaliving myself. And the thought that I might be able to visit his grave and spit on it.
Anyone know a spell for not irritating people's demons at the office? Serious question. I come off as ND but I'm really just a triple Sagittarius. I do protection and all of that but looking for anything else. Maybe glamour something.
November 24, 2024 at 1:04 AM
Anyone know a spell for not irritating people's demons at the office? Serious question. I come off as ND but I'm really just a triple Sagittarius. I do protection and all of that but looking for anything else. Maybe glamour something.
Apparently you can get plan B at Costco for 6 dollars even if you aren't a member. First, if you weigh over 165 pounds it isn't effective. And taking two doesn't change that. Second, let's all stock up now. It could be worth thousands of dollars next year.
November 24, 2024 at 1:01 AM
Apparently you can get plan B at Costco for 6 dollars even if you aren't a member. First, if you weigh over 165 pounds it isn't effective. And taking two doesn't change that. Second, let's all stock up now. It could be worth thousands of dollars next year.
More I hate Xmas. It is the worst season for mental health, suicide and addiction. It is too much pressure.
My dream is to be able to travel to a tropical nice country that has never heard of Xmas every year and stay there from black Friday to Jan 2nd. Am I the only Grinch and scrooge?
My dream is to be able to travel to a tropical nice country that has never heard of Xmas every year and stay there from black Friday to Jan 2nd. Am I the only Grinch and scrooge?
November 24, 2024 at 12:58 AM
More I hate Xmas. It is the worst season for mental health, suicide and addiction. It is too much pressure.
My dream is to be able to travel to a tropical nice country that has never heard of Xmas every year and stay there from black Friday to Jan 2nd. Am I the only Grinch and scrooge?
My dream is to be able to travel to a tropical nice country that has never heard of Xmas every year and stay there from black Friday to Jan 2nd. Am I the only Grinch and scrooge?
More reasons why I hate Xmas. There is just too much of it. It makes no sense. Women end up doing 95% of all of it except for putting up lights. Having to choose where to go and leaving some one out. It feels like people make it way too important. It is like a religion. It is like a damn cult.
November 24, 2024 at 12:56 AM
More reasons why I hate Xmas. There is just too much of it. It makes no sense. Women end up doing 95% of all of it except for putting up lights. Having to choose where to go and leaving some one out. It feels like people make it way too important. It is like a religion. It is like a damn cult.
More reasons I hate Xmas. Everything shuts down. All the schedules and routines are screwed up. You have no choice. It is everywhere. You have no choice. Resistance is futile. You must and will have fun. It shouldn't last for a month. It is annoying to all my senses including common sense.
November 24, 2024 at 12:54 AM
More reasons I hate Xmas. Everything shuts down. All the schedules and routines are screwed up. You have no choice. It is everywhere. You have no choice. Resistance is futile. You must and will have fun. It shouldn't last for a month. It is annoying to all my senses including common sense.
Reasons I hate Xmas. Commercialism. Christianity. Greed. Fake generosity. Cheesey sentiments. The weather. The dark. Red and green are ugly. People suck. Weight gain. Forced corporate fun. People drive like morons. Xmas music is the worst music ever invented. It lasts waaaaay too long.
November 24, 2024 at 12:52 AM
Reasons I hate Xmas. Commercialism. Christianity. Greed. Fake generosity. Cheesey sentiments. The weather. The dark. Red and green are ugly. People suck. Weight gain. Forced corporate fun. People drive like morons. Xmas music is the worst music ever invented. It lasts waaaaay too long.
GenX women against leggings so tight you can see a woman's IUD. There is so much evil in this world and so little we have control over. Let's ban together against seeing other women's camel toes at work or the park or the mall and really get behind something that doesn't matter.
November 24, 2024 at 12:49 AM
GenX women against leggings so tight you can see a woman's IUD. There is so much evil in this world and so little we have control over. Let's ban together against seeing other women's camel toes at work or the park or the mall and really get behind something that doesn't matter.
Favorite dress for dressy Xmas party? For sort of curvy tallish blonde who wears a medium or large.
November 17, 2024 at 3:18 AM
Favorite dress for dressy Xmas party? For sort of curvy tallish blonde who wears a medium or large.
I just moved to a new area so thought I would try the dating apps here. I haven't been on these in maybe 4 years but I'm banned from Hinge and Tinder. How bizarre.
November 17, 2024 at 12:09 AM
I just moved to a new area so thought I would try the dating apps here. I haven't been on these in maybe 4 years but I'm banned from Hinge and Tinder. How bizarre.
Coloring other people's work then rearranging.
November 16, 2024 at 5:04 PM
Coloring other people's work then rearranging.
When friends come to visit.
November 16, 2024 at 5:02 PM
When friends come to visit.
First date in 4 years. I'm back to my insistence on a zoom call first and then a coffee date. This man trued to put off ordering dinner so he could "spend as much time as possible" with me, like I didn't have a choice. About 8 other red flags went up. Also I give up on genX men.
November 16, 2024 at 4:52 PM
First date in 4 years. I'm back to my insistence on a zoom call first and then a coffee date. This man trued to put off ordering dinner so he could "spend as much time as possible" with me, like I didn't have a choice. About 8 other red flags went up. Also I give up on genX men.
I spent about two months on that other place after never taking an interest. It was probably the worst SM experience I've had. I deleted my account.
Let's hope this turns out better.
Let's hope this turns out better.
November 16, 2024 at 4:39 PM
I spent about two months on that other place after never taking an interest. It was probably the worst SM experience I've had. I deleted my account.
Let's hope this turns out better.
Let's hope this turns out better.