THIS is toxic masculinity. It defends itself VIOLENTLY but can otherwise blend in if unbothered. But that blending in is letting a deep, dangerous anger fester.

because if you call out the unhinged ones, they'll blow up the scene and get really angry and aggressive. And then they all back down. And these guys are out there just looking for there chances with "plausible" deniability.

You can watch the guy who does the fits shoots pantomime like he's seeing something dangerous and then shooting him. This was some sort of murderous pre-planned response. They not all on the same page I'm sure but, and I keep sayin it, they know who the unhinged ones are and they don't do anything.

but people still don't accept that (I think they fear that.. reality of our realities not being exactly the same, despite both having "normal" eyes and ears) is all it was and neither side was wrong or weird or color blind haha.

This is how I knew all about what the white-gold/ blue-black dress business was all about; it was in a cracked article awhile back about how some people see color differently and used pictures to prove it (i tested with my family looking at the same screen, seeing different colors).

(For the relatably lazy - citationsneeded.libsyn.com/episode-157-... )

"what if all lives mattered" is what i'm seeing here. Not saying you'd be that person on that topic, but it's the same idea. One side was the offender, it's not appropriate to be like "bad people on both sides" here. Imo.

The distraction pointing has only come from one side...

Sometimes I should remind myself (and now I extend to you) to describe people's behavior and words as that, behavior. You can say "You're stupid" or you can say "That's stupid" and it's completely different. "You're acting unreasonable" and "You're unreasonable". See the difference? Anywho...

I sometimes use freak in a positive sense, but not here. Actual, spiritual freaks. Or are at least invoking freak bad ideas.

if they pay my rent, they can have it.