yoooooo

shepday birthday? hap shepday

( it’s generally “Nickerchen”, “Mittagsschlaf”, or “Schläfchen”. German is weird )

Close though tbh

Jealoussssss

praying they’ll make at least one more to finish off the new threads

letting everyone know i'm not a problematic!!!!

I remember hearing about that back when i started pounced-on.me

bestie

what the fuck is happening at US cons

It still does that! But I think it’s really only used by system messages nowadays iirc

yeah! for me it's specifically a bunch of streamers and some "high profile commissioners" and it's like...

I just never went into conversations expecting much and was just chill, or we had mutual friends already. I think many with that take forget that they're still just people with their own lives

I've been meaning to write a blogpost about this and how I got to where I am with my circles but writing is hard 😩

I saw that "popufurs are cliquey" take so much during my first years in the fandom in like 2018/19 and I think a lot still claim it.

It never made sense to me bc of how easily I got to know a bunch of em despite being still new to the fandom

which like hot and woof generally if they're my bf OR SOMEONE I KNOW, but just like,,, yuck?

I've had situations where I mentioned in a nsfw chat that I was "submissive" and it genuinely disgusted me how some dudes saw that as an invitation to "dom" me or treat me like a toy

Like, my bf and I have a very specific dynamic and I'm thriving, but if anyone else dares to treat me that way I'd rather barf.