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23 • satanist • therian • digital sorcerer • pixel wizard • 🔞 nsfw

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yoooooo
December 13, 2025 at 6:58 PM
shepday birthday? hap shepday
December 11, 2025 at 5:13 AM
( it’s generally “Nickerchen”, “Mittagsschlaf”, or “Schläfchen”. German is weird )
December 8, 2025 at 12:00 AM
Close though tbh
December 8, 2025 at 12:00 AM
Jealoussssss
December 7, 2025 at 11:58 PM
praying they’ll make at least one more to finish off the new threads
December 7, 2025 at 8:39 PM
letting everyone know i'm not a problematic!!!!
December 7, 2025 at 1:02 AM
I remember hearing about that back when i started pounced-on.me
December 6, 2025 at 11:55 PM
bestie

what the fuck is happening at US cons
December 6, 2025 at 9:37 AM
It still does that! But I think it’s really only used by system messages nowadays iirc
December 6, 2025 at 9:36 AM
yeah! for me it's specifically a bunch of streamers and some "high profile commissioners" and it's like...

I just never went into conversations expecting much and was just chill, or we had mutual friends already. I think many with that take forget that they're still just people with their own lives
December 6, 2025 at 9:25 AM
I've been meaning to write a blogpost about this and how I got to where I am with my circles but writing is hard 😩
December 6, 2025 at 9:09 AM
I saw that "popufurs are cliquey" take so much during my first years in the fandom in like 2018/19 and I think a lot still claim it.

It never made sense to me bc of how easily I got to know a bunch of em despite being still new to the fandom
December 6, 2025 at 9:09 AM
which like hot and woof generally if they're my bf OR SOMEONE I KNOW, but just like,,, yuck?
December 6, 2025 at 8:57 AM
I've had situations where I mentioned in a nsfw chat that I was "submissive" and it genuinely disgusted me how some dudes saw that as an invitation to "dom" me or treat me like a toy
December 6, 2025 at 8:57 AM
Like, my bf and I have a very specific dynamic and I'm thriving, but if anyone else dares to treat me that way I'd rather barf.
December 6, 2025 at 8:57 AM