I want to talk earnestly about what it's been like creating The Flytrap this year.

It has been the most exciting experience of my life. My other co-founders are all just amazing and talented people. Solo, none of us could make The Flytrap, but together it feels like we're the feminist Avengers.

Amusingly they played ‘I Kissed A Girl”which, early into the venue’s opening was played 5(!) times in 1 night I attended, along with several other tracks off that album. As a DJ I have never been more mad. I felt like I had paid cover to dance to a 5 disc changer on shuffle.

It was my first time in a gay bar since I started my transition, which felt like an important milestone. In a way it helped me feel less alone, but the not managing to talk to anyone amplified the sense of isolation I am grappling with.