Apologies for "frumpiness" – been incredibly sick and in the hospital. I just wanted to mark the potentially last time I look even slightly male. Cuz it's incredible how much I still get called "miss" and "ma'am" with a full goatee.

I went from being anxious about telling him to now just being fucking livid at the response. I think I'd rather be yelled at after all.

It notifies my friends who are all messaging me asking wtf is happening, and it gets the family involved (namely his sisters) who do the same thing. JUST TALK TO ME. I hate this.