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marycoughlinrn.bsky.social
@marycoughlinrn.bsky.social
Trauma-informed truth-teller. Nurse, educator, advocate. Weaving care, culture & civic healing. We are not separate threads. We are the weaving.

GDP can grow while people struggle.

That’s not confusion.
That’s disaggregation.

Lived experience is data—and ignoring it erodes trust.

🧵 New post: When “Growth” Doesn’t Feel Like Growth
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#CaringIsEssential #BUFFERFramework #TraumaInformed
When the Economy Grows but People Struggle: A Trauma-Informed View
GDP may be rising, but many households are struggling. A trauma-informed look at economic growth, inequality, and why lived experience matters.
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December 27, 2025 at 4:02 PM
A 60 Minutes segment on CECOT—reportedly cleared and ready to air—was pulled at the last minute. What you see here is the story that didn’t make it to broadcast.

Bearing witness is not partisan. It’s human.

Watch. Reflect. Decide for yourself.
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WATCH: The 60 Minutes CECOT Segment
I was sent the CECOT segment anonymously in a group chat.
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December 22, 2025 at 10:56 PM
NICU parents:
We’re collecting parent perspectives on using a parent’s own milk—rather than cow-milk products—to create a fortifier for babies needing specialized care.

🔗 www.surveymonkey.com/r/parents-pe...
December 17, 2025 at 5:17 PM
Reposted
Save the date, our first webinar of 2026 has officially been scheduled! This event is free and open to all, join our membership to register: stanforduniversity.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_...
December 10, 2025 at 3:03 PM
New: Full Moon Parables
Stories about lineage, emotional inheritance, and the quiet rooms we learn to live in.
Parable One — The House of Quiet Rooms.
Read: open.substack.com/pub/marycoug...

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Full Moon Parables - Parable 1: THE HOUSE OF QUIET ROOMS
Stories at the Heart of Trauma-Informed Care
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December 4, 2025 at 9:36 PM
Tell Congress to use every available mechanism to keep SNAP funded in November, right as Thanksgiving approaches. action.momsrising.org/sign/fund-sn...
Tell Congress: Act Quickly to Keep SNAP Funded in November!
Tell Congress to use every available mechanism to keep SNAP funded in November, right as Thanksgiving approaches.
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October 28, 2025 at 1:22 PM
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October 14, 2025 at 6:22 PM
They filmed the raid.
They called it “enforcement.”
I call it trauma.

The cruelty isn’t accidental — it’s the point.
Here’s my trauma-informed reflection on the Chicago raid and what it means for our democracy.

caringessentials.net/post/when-cr...

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When Cruelty Becomes the Point
A trauma-informed response to the Chicago ICE raid — where cruelty isn’t a failure of policy, but its purpose. Care must be our counterpoint.
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October 7, 2025 at 9:51 PM
Lies are never just words. They are wounds.
Vietnam taught us that.
We must choose truth, compassion, & love,
not only for our nation, but for the future of humanity.

Read more: caringessentials.net/post/the-gre...

#TruthMatters #CaringIsEssential #WeTheFuture
September 24, 2025 at 2:16 PM
Selective outrage is how the system protects itself.
We rallied for Kimmel, but where is that same energy for the 300,000+ Black women pushed out of the workforce, for erased journalists, for silenced voices?
Real solidarity means fighting just as hard for ALL!
@abiadamson.bsky.social
Disney's $4 Billion Double Standard
Four hundred celebrities for Kimmel. Zero for systematically erased voices. Where's that energy for everyone else being silenced?
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September 23, 2025 at 4:28 PM
“I left with a renewed sense of purpose.”
I got to co-host an FCC Taskforce webinar with @jessibarnes.bsky.social that sparked healing, reflection, and culture-shifting conversations.

Read the review at the QR code
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#TraumaInformedCare #HealingTogether
September 23, 2025 at 2:33 PM
Watched an old favorite. Saw patriarchy dressed as romance.
Felt my heart break.

Patriarchy is not a relic of the past—it is trauma we risk repeating unless we choose a different story.

READ: caringessentials.net/post/waking-...

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Waking Up With American Dreamer: Patriarchy, Trauma, and Choosing a Different Story
Revisiting the 1980s film American Dreamer reveals how misogyny and patriarchy were normalized as entertainment—and how today’s politics threaten to pull us back into that story. A bold reflection on ...
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September 7, 2025 at 2:55 PM
The link between language and gunshots
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The link between language and gunshots
The Column: 06.15.25
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June 17, 2025 at 12:59 PM
Healing and justice are not separate.
I didn’t plan to step into this fight —
But I refuse to stay silent while dignity, truth, and constitutional values are betrayed.
Here's why I’m choosing Ethical Courage — and how you can too:
👉 marycoughlin.substack.com/p/when-ethic...

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When Ethical Silence Becomes Betrayal: A Call for Collective Courage
Naming the harm. Defending the Constitution. Healing democracy through principled, trauma-informed action.
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April 28, 2025 at 3:36 PM