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Melissa Gosselin 🚢
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I’m a Canadian writer and CELTA-certified English teacher who spent 8 years in Colombia. Writing about personal growth and creativity.
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Day 11/30: Am I hyper-focusing or in a flow state? Why I thought I had ADHD
A screenshot of an essay titled 'Am I hyper-focusing or in a flow state? Why I thought I had ADHD'. The essay discusses the author's initial skepticism regarding ADHD diagnoses among family members and their subsequent exploration of personal experiences that aligned with ADHD traits. Key points highlighted include excitement for new projects followed by burnout, time miscalculations, and hyper-focusing on interests. The author reflects on a childhood memory of being absorbed in reading despite chaos around them. They express a dislike for diagnoses and prefer to view their focus as a creative strength, implementing strategies such as journaling and creating distraction-free workspaces, renaming ADHD strategies as 'my creative protocol'. The overall theme emphasizes managing one's unique thought processes rather than viewing them as problems.
July 29, 2025 at 12:46 PM
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Day 8/30: Need a break from personal development and non-fiction books? Here's a classic novel I've read multiple times--and the #1 lesson it taught me
Screenshot essay titled 'Need a break from personal development and non-fiction books? Here’s a classic novel I’ve read multiple times—and the #1 lesson it taught me.' The text discusses the author's love for personal development books while emphasizing the powerful lessons learned from fiction, particularly Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte. The main lesson highlighted is the importance of integrity. The essay mentions Jane's trials and quiet dignity, alongside a quote about the significance of self-approval over public opinion. It reflects on Jane's character, her moral convictions, and her ability to form meaningful relationships despite life's challenges, reiterating the author’s commitment to the book's lessons.
July 26, 2025 at 12:08 PM
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Day 7/30: The most successful creatives all have this one trait
A screenshot essay titled 'The most successful creatives all have this one trait'. The text discusses the concept of 'grit' as a key characteristic of successful creatives. It explains how grit manifests as persistence in pursuing long-term goals, referencing insights from researcher Angela Duckworth and author Elizabeth Gilbert, who vowed to write regardless of circumstances. The essay highlights examples from artists like Lisa Kudrow rehearsing comedic lines and Taylor Swift training vocally for her tour, illustrating their dedication and commitment to their craft. The concluding question prompts the reader to consider what they would dedicate their life to.
July 25, 2025 at 12:11 PM
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Day 6/30: One simple realization that made me start enjoying small talk as an introvert
A screenshot of an essay titled 'One simple realization that made me start enjoying small talk as an introvert.' The text discusses the author's struggle with social awkwardness and discomfort during small talk at events. It contrasts the negative feelings associated with conventional small talk questions with a turning point where the author discovers the ability to guide conversations through their own questions. The author shares examples of how to introduce positivity and depth into conversations, like sharing excitement about an event or asking 'why' questions to provoke storytelling. The essay concludes with the author's newfound appreciation for engaging in conversations about topics that others love.
July 25, 2025 at 12:57 AM
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Day 5/30: The quote that helped me rebuild my life after losing my mom
A personal reflection essay titled 'The quote that helped me rebuild my life after losing my mom'. The author shares their experience of losing their mother to cancer five years ago, moving back to Canada from Colombia, and navigating a long-distance relationship during the pandemic. They describe feelings of sadness and disappointment over time, revealing a struggle with the concept of hope. Through a quote from Angela Duckworth’s book 'Grit', they realize that true hope comes from taking action to improve one's future, rather than waiting for external changes. The author emphasizes that crafting meaning from pain is a part of the human experience, and highlights the importance of resilience in creating a fulfilling life.
July 23, 2025 at 1:03 PM