We don't always get what we feel we need - a statement that rings true not only with chastity & denial, but also life in general. Take this past week, for example: Michele has been out of town for work for the last week, and I miss her lots. I miss touching her, feeling her, being close to her. It sucks to have her so far away.

Most of the time Male Chastity, Female domination, BDSM and things like that are often fantasized about by a man. It's those fantasies that get in there and grow and grow, like weeds, rooting themselves in his mind. One of the problems with a fantasy is most guys are extremely nervous about telling their partner about any fantasy, let alone ones that involve locking up their penis in a cage, tying them up, spanking them, and denying them orgasm.

As I was enjoying my coffee this morning, I was chatting with Michele like we do every morning… I was up earlier than she was (I live in an earlier time zone) so I started my day with some grooming. I cut my hair and trimmed my beard and then I moved a little lower. Michele likes me to keep my pubic area neat and my balls shaved.

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Have you ever discovered that you have had a kink for a long time and you didn't realize it? It is really interesting to me that I have a degradation kink and I never knew it. Other people have this kink, sometimes to the point of a fetish but it has never been my thing. Apparently, I was wrong, it just took the right experience to bring it out.

poppet asked an amazing question in a comment and I really wanted to address it in a post because it's not as simple as “Hi, I'm Michele, I'm a sadist and I love it, it fulfills me and I get turned on by it.” lol so here goes, I hope this brings you a little further into our world as we keep writing.

Sitting here, enjoying the morning, listening to my wife having sex with her boyfriend in the next room, my mind drifts back to memories of John’s last visit… Michele had been hinting t…

Good morning! I was sitting here enjoying this nice warm cup of coffee... Not freezing after this winter storm, and thinking to myself... Am I weird for liking the things I like? Do you ever ask yourself that? From time to time I'll just go through something where I wonder why I like some of the things I do. It is simply the psychological stuff from childhood working itself out?

Sitting here, enjoying the morning, listening to my wife having sex with her boyfriend in the next room, my mind drifts back to memories of John's last visit... Michele had been hinting throughout the day Saturday that she might be interested in "spending some time with John and me" before bed. The excitement only grew when she had us close the door as we entered the bedroom (we're parents & we're careful 😂).

Ooo I’m so excited! We got an email recently from one of you lovely keyholders asking some very important questions. I decided to make this another one of the famous “Mail Chastity&#822…

I wanted to chat about the first time the three of us were together, sexually… Mostly because I know a lot of you want to hear the juicy deets! (do people still say that word.? Lol) I do think it&#…

This is a light story about my experience with airport security. As you may already know I don’t live near Michele and Jon. They live in Texas and I live in Virginia. Michele and I do a lot o…

Hello, my lovelies— Have you missed us? 👋 It’s been far too long since I last sat down here to share our life with you in our little corner of the internet. Life has a way of sweeping us up and spi…

I’ve been thinking a lot, recently, about what it means to truly control pleasure, not necessarily by force, but by intention. By choosing what is withheld, what is delayed, and what is never guara…