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Pitou
@mintymalty.bsky.social
「20」|| Student of art and writing, joy enthusiast

(Gonna be busy for like 3-4 months starting May 27th)
But I'm rambling. And tired. And promised my friends I'd be alseep by now. It's funny how a game of smash can open one's eyes.

I failed. Miserably.
But I had fun. And I'll keep trying to be better.
Telling yourself that at least you tried, that's love.

Love yourself. Love each other. Take care.
April 27, 2025 at 5:09 AM
But most of all. give yourself love. Not blanket love, not "do whatever you want and it will work out" love, nurturing love. Love that tells you to try again. Love that pushes you to be better. Love in stagnation is coddling. Hate in change is abuse. Love in perserverance betters life for everyone.
April 27, 2025 at 5:08 AM
will know you. They will love you. And it's known that when you love someone, in some ways, you take some of them as a part of you.

Don't give them habits of melancholy, and unrelenting displeasure with oneself. Give them what you'd want them to have. Grace. Kindness. A sense of healthy humor. cont
April 27, 2025 at 5:07 AM
like a knife. And sadly, failure is what it takes to grow. Even the most talented savant in the world won't be perfect at everything. No person ever could be. So why hold yourself to that standard?

If not for yourself, think of your friends. If they look to you with any sort of goodwill they (cont)
April 27, 2025 at 5:05 AM
Self-depriciative humor and mindset, like nearly anything, is good in moderation. But to lean on it to motivate yourself is to stunt your own growth, and ruin yourself. Your jokes become cruel, your outlook bleak, and you stagnate. If you pride yourself on perfection, failure will sting (cont)
April 27, 2025 at 5:04 AM
that poor baby and you tell them they were right, and everyone who was mean and told them that you're supposed to be as unhappy as they are were horrible. You tell them it's okay to fail. You tell them their misery isn't for amusement. And you help them, just like you'd help a friend. (cont)
April 27, 2025 at 5:03 AM
root cause. It's something I'm trying to change. I wish I'd done it sooner. I'm only 20, but so many more years of my life could have been bettered if I'd just kept the charm and cheer and joy of my earlier days. When people say you need to heal your inner child, they're right. You take (cont)
April 27, 2025 at 5:02 AM
Said better than I could for sure

Hardware's the only thing worth the money, and that's the only thing I'll *need*
April 23, 2025 at 11:58 PM
GENUINE TRUTH MAN. Like sure, it looks cool. Sure, it's got some hollow open world. Sure it's got what feels like a character mod added in by a twelve year old. But it's not worth 80 dollars. From how it looks I wouldn't even pay sixty. Maybe fifty.

Even then, Oblivion's fifty, so...
April 23, 2025 at 11:49 PM