"Shame on you for not helping your mom maintain independence" She wouldn't even fart without asking my dad how he felt about it first and now it's my fucking fault too, maybe yall should have gave a fuck when DFCS coulda helped me instead of waiting til my 40s to finally believe me about this shit
December 3, 2025 at 7:11 PM
"Shame on you for not helping your mom maintain independence" She wouldn't even fart without asking my dad how he felt about it first and now it's my fucking fault too, maybe yall should have gave a fuck when DFCS coulda helped me instead of waiting til my 40s to finally believe me about this shit
Another day I'll have a rant about how wildly unconstructive the clinical protocol / stereotype is that all addicts only know other addicts but I'm worn tf out from signing up for half assed health insurance that won't cost double my power bill and still don't cover mental except 5150 related 🤦🏻♀️
December 2, 2025 at 11:39 PM
Another day I'll have a rant about how wildly unconstructive the clinical protocol / stereotype is that all addicts only know other addicts but I'm worn tf out from signing up for half assed health insurance that won't cost double my power bill and still don't cover mental except 5150 related 🤦🏻♀️
I did not qualify for a support group bc it's not enough to have lost someone to OD but you have to know another addict still alive. So I can't come to reg support groups bc my story too "chaotic" and "Jerry Springer" but I can't come to the OD one bc no one else I know is on drugs 🤦🏻♀️
December 2, 2025 at 11:37 PM
I did not qualify for a support group bc it's not enough to have lost someone to OD but you have to know another addict still alive. So I can't come to reg support groups bc my story too "chaotic" and "Jerry Springer" but I can't come to the OD one bc no one else I know is on drugs 🤦🏻♀️
I'm sincerely not tryna yuck anybody's yum but white therapy speak rap is the most upsetting shit I seen all day
December 2, 2025 at 10:29 PM
I'm sincerely not tryna yuck anybody's yum but white therapy speak rap is the most upsetting shit I seen all day
This always happens when a few years have passed after a death and I was too destroyed to fight mfs at first but I realize in retrospect who tried to absolutely loot my sanity and dignity by gleefully kicking me when I was down and then I'm MAD AF YALL ASSUME THAT GRIFT WAS GONNA LAST FOREVER
December 2, 2025 at 6:33 PM
This always happens when a few years have passed after a death and I was too destroyed to fight mfs at first but I realize in retrospect who tried to absolutely loot my sanity and dignity by gleefully kicking me when I was down and then I'm MAD AF YALL ASSUME THAT GRIFT WAS GONNA LAST FOREVER
It's hard not to see thru tracing paper thin cultural bullshit that you want me in therapy if you think I'm white bc self actualization but when you see me as Hispanic I need to sacrifice my entire life nobly in a stupid unnecessary way when there are professionals who can help keep us all alive
December 2, 2025 at 6:32 PM
It's hard not to see thru tracing paper thin cultural bullshit that you want me in therapy if you think I'm white bc self actualization but when you see me as Hispanic I need to sacrifice my entire life nobly in a stupid unnecessary way when there are professionals who can help keep us all alive
In conclusion, fucking wild the people who obviously need help aren't allowed to have it and the ones who are managing fine need to go to Therapy And Lattes capitalist lifestyle affirming talk therapy bc yall edit my race depending on which part of the mental health system is addressing me.
December 2, 2025 at 6:29 PM
In conclusion, fucking wild the people who obviously need help aren't allowed to have it and the ones who are managing fine need to go to Therapy And Lattes capitalist lifestyle affirming talk therapy bc yall edit my race depending on which part of the mental health system is addressing me.
"But mentally ill people are sad tragic incompetents, they should be obsequious and biddable bc they NEED our help!" Yall seem a little scared that the prevalence of neurodivergence is gonna flip one day so the judgemental, shaming, sociopathic fake Christian neurotypicals can't dominate us anymore.
December 2, 2025 at 6:27 PM
"But mentally ill people are sad tragic incompetents, they should be obsequious and biddable bc they NEED our help!" Yall seem a little scared that the prevalence of neurodivergence is gonna flip one day so the judgemental, shaming, sociopathic fake Christian neurotypicals can't dominate us anymore.
That's all tf I have now. If it upsets you this is actually the best I can do with the situation and you probably would have already broke under the weight therefore I'm wrong, simply STOP FUCKING PRYING INTO MY BUSINESS AND SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT PEOPLE YOU OFFERING NO HELP ONLY JUDGEMENT. FOH.
December 2, 2025 at 6:25 PM
That's all tf I have now. If it upsets you this is actually the best I can do with the situation and you probably would have already broke under the weight therefore I'm wrong, simply STOP FUCKING PRYING INTO MY BUSINESS AND SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT PEOPLE YOU OFFERING NO HELP ONLY JUDGEMENT. FOH.
So it's not enough yall yearn for the return of a racist status quo where only Black and Brown people get shit on and you think America is fair and full of anti-racism Superman. You also cry and shame people carrying more weight how selfish they are to not have the same access as you or be invisible
December 2, 2025 at 6:24 PM
So it's not enough yall yearn for the return of a racist status quo where only Black and Brown people get shit on and you think America is fair and full of anti-racism Superman. You also cry and shame people carrying more weight how selfish they are to not have the same access as you or be invisible
I suspect it's the same mfs who get on here wailing about "I can't believe the GOVERNMENT did an INJUSTICE and no one fixed it and made evetyone happy?! This isn't the America I KNOW!" Exactly bc you're blinded by delusional white privilege that most people have to struggle
December 2, 2025 at 6:22 PM
I suspect it's the same mfs who get on here wailing about "I can't believe the GOVERNMENT did an INJUSTICE and no one fixed it and made evetyone happy?! This isn't the America I KNOW!" Exactly bc you're blinded by delusional white privilege that most people have to struggle
What I think it comes down to is some people mean well but don't respect boundaries and also some people don't mean well and refuse to accept I'm doing the best I can. "But it's not like in this positivity book! EYE am always totes happy so YOU ARE FAILING AND NEED CORRECTION"
December 2, 2025 at 6:20 PM
What I think it comes down to is some people mean well but don't respect boundaries and also some people don't mean well and refuse to accept I'm doing the best I can. "But it's not like in this positivity book! EYE am always totes happy so YOU ARE FAILING AND NEED CORRECTION"
And it's absolutely a function of systemic bullshit "nurses aren't actually a profession anymore, how dare you need student loans for school bc nursing is simple and easy and all women are automatically nurses unless they're DISGUSTING VICTIMS OF FEMINISM WHO EAT PIZZA AND HAVE A CAT "
December 2, 2025 at 6:19 PM
And it's absolutely a function of systemic bullshit "nurses aren't actually a profession anymore, how dare you need student loans for school bc nursing is simple and easy and all women are automatically nurses unless they're DISGUSTING VICTIMS OF FEMINISM WHO EAT PIZZA AND HAVE A CAT "
I've had white Americans tell me it's just my burden to calmly allow my father who never physically abused me as a child stab me to death as an adult bc my life just doesn't matter much bc women exist to be expendable caregivers so maybe don't blame my heritage when yall the ghouls today
December 2, 2025 at 6:17 PM
I've had white Americans tell me it's just my burden to calmly allow my father who never physically abused me as a child stab me to death as an adult bc my life just doesn't matter much bc women exist to be expendable caregivers so maybe don't blame my heritage when yall the ghouls today
So maybe all the pressuring us to assimilate in the 40s backfired bc the current generations can afford to do the American thing and "put them in a home" which yes is frowned on traditionally but so tf is your loved one dying of fucking scissor injuries bc the caregiver is too ill to handle shit
December 2, 2025 at 6:14 PM
So maybe all the pressuring us to assimilate in the 40s backfired bc the current generations can afford to do the American thing and "put them in a home" which yes is frowned on traditionally but so tf is your loved one dying of fucking scissor injuries bc the caregiver is too ill to handle shit
Google AI told me "specifically, it is shameful in Hispanic cultures to place a loved one in skilled care." Ok is it that or is it that yall use us as your caregiver at a higher rate bc immigration exploitation and maybe Cracker McDoctor is pissy when he finds a Latino who can afford to RECEIVE care
December 2, 2025 at 6:12 PM
Google AI told me "specifically, it is shameful in Hispanic cultures to place a loved one in skilled care." Ok is it that or is it that yall use us as your caregiver at a higher rate bc immigration exploitation and maybe Cracker McDoctor is pissy when he finds a Latino who can afford to RECEIVE care
FINALLY. I CANNOT AFFORD TALK THERAPY OR MEDS. I BARELY HAVE INSURANCE. BUT MY DAD HAS A VARIETY OF VA MENTAL OPTIONS EVEN WITHOUT COMBAT COVERAGE. So tell me again who tf is "delusional" that I will avail myself of the professional help that is available while mfs shame me I need the one that isn't
December 2, 2025 at 6:10 PM
FINALLY. I CANNOT AFFORD TALK THERAPY OR MEDS. I BARELY HAVE INSURANCE. BUT MY DAD HAS A VARIETY OF VA MENTAL OPTIONS EVEN WITHOUT COMBAT COVERAGE. So tell me again who tf is "delusional" that I will avail myself of the professional help that is available while mfs shame me I need the one that isn't
I can't even Google "bipolar caregiver" bc they assume you need a caregiver FOR the insane dangerous bipolar but then change hats and scold you that nothing is wrong with you you're faking so get to it sacrificing your entire life to be a caregiver. Multiple things can be true but that's absurd
December 2, 2025 at 6:09 PM
I can't even Google "bipolar caregiver" bc they assume you need a caregiver FOR the insane dangerous bipolar but then change hats and scold you that nothing is wrong with you you're faking so get to it sacrificing your entire life to be a caregiver. Multiple things can be true but that's absurd
And if you still wanna come back and argue that of COURSE a mental incompetent like myself has no right to make these decisions, why tf do yall totally discount my mental illness when telling me being a memory care nurse is easy so just do it for free and never sleep again
December 2, 2025 at 6:07 PM
And if you still wanna come back and argue that of COURSE a mental incompetent like myself has no right to make these decisions, why tf do yall totally discount my mental illness when telling me being a memory care nurse is easy so just do it for free and never sleep again
It's not a conspiracy bc it's right in the open. If you say it's obvious injustice then you started it. And my fav, it's anti community to not go to therapy to be more palatable to others but it's toxic individualism to put a relative in a safer environment w skilled care who take the scissors away
December 2, 2025 at 6:06 PM
It's not a conspiracy bc it's right in the open. If you say it's obvious injustice then you started it. And my fav, it's anti community to not go to therapy to be more palatable to others but it's toxic individualism to put a relative in a safer environment w skilled care who take the scissors away
And I'm supposed to passively obey this without any regard for how this is flagrantly exposing where healthcare bottom lines lie, how people who can manage need to be forced into talk therapy and meds designed for more dramatic conditions but caring for dementia is SO EASY JUST SHUT UP AND DO IT
December 2, 2025 at 6:04 PM
And I'm supposed to passively obey this without any regard for how this is flagrantly exposing where healthcare bottom lines lie, how people who can manage need to be forced into talk therapy and meds designed for more dramatic conditions but caring for dementia is SO EASY JUST SHUT UP AND DO IT
But if I say this, NO NO NO YOU'RE WRONG YOU ATLRE NOT FINE YOU NEED THERAPY EVEN IF YOU DISAGREE. And then NO NO NO YOU MAY NOT HAVE HELP W THE ELDER WHO MIGHT PHYSICALLY INJURE YOU, YOU DO IT ALL YOURSELF! AND IF IT KILLS YOU FINE BC MENOPAUSAL WOMEN HAVE NO USE!
December 2, 2025 at 6:03 PM
But if I say this, NO NO NO YOU'RE WRONG YOU ATLRE NOT FINE YOU NEED THERAPY EVEN IF YOU DISAGREE. And then NO NO NO YOU MAY NOT HAVE HELP W THE ELDER WHO MIGHT PHYSICALLY INJURE YOU, YOU DO IT ALL YOURSELF! AND IF IT KILLS YOU FINE BC MENOPAUSAL WOMEN HAVE NO USE!
I resist thetapy because I can manage. I have coping mechanisms, I have skills to accommodate myself, as long as I'm mentally sound enough I can handle this but I cannot handle my dad, physically, because he's bigger than mrle and violent after dusk
December 2, 2025 at 6:01 PM
I resist thetapy because I can manage. I have coping mechanisms, I have skills to accommodate myself, as long as I'm mentally sound enough I can handle this but I cannot handle my dad, physically, because he's bigger than mrle and violent after dusk
But that's unacceptable. Therapy shot from "forbidden and shameful" to "mandatory and anyone who doesn't go is a monster" bc of a financial ruse to maintain narrative control during COVID but the bottom line still benefits shaming people for needing elder care beyond "just learn to stop sleeping"
December 2, 2025 at 6:00 PM
But that's unacceptable. Therapy shot from "forbidden and shameful" to "mandatory and anyone who doesn't go is a monster" bc of a financial ruse to maintain narrative control during COVID but the bottom line still benefits shaming people for needing elder care beyond "just learn to stop sleeping"
Meanwhile I fucking direly need help w my dad. He's too big to just push around and he resists and fights you if you try. He's totally nonverbal and spends most of the day chopping up anything he can find with scissors. My mok refuses to admit this is chaos. I NEED FUCKING HELP FROM A CNA
December 2, 2025 at 5:58 PM
Meanwhile I fucking direly need help w my dad. He's too big to just push around and he resists and fights you if you try. He's totally nonverbal and spends most of the day chopping up anything he can find with scissors. My mok refuses to admit this is chaos. I NEED FUCKING HELP FROM A CNA