I am terrified to talk about the fact I may be closing myself off permanently to maintain my boundaries better because of the comments I will receive, but I will not stay silent on this anymore

My polyamory is freedom to love my boys and have a little queer family with them, hookups and sleeping around are not for me and to be accused of slut shaming because I’m not afraid to admit that is awful, I am not stopping you, I’m just happier in MY situation

(2) also regarding my relationship I’ve had periods where we have been poly but closed and during those periods I got some of the worst hate I’ve ever received from people in my own community, telling me I’m “losing my freedom”

Of course!

I want it on record I wished the bear well in dms! But damn right these guys need to be kinder!

(3) you act so perfect and high and mighty like you're better than me for the way you handle things, I'm sick of the past being used to justify horrible behaviour in the present because nothing I could have done would have been good enough, you would have dropped me anyway

(2) you sent me a wall of text proclaiming what an awful person I was and blocked me so I had no way to stand up for myself when most of what you said was a crock of shit, I cut people off for you and it was never good enough, nothing I did was ever good enough for you

Need him to teach me how to be rugged **

** To stop being too lazy to sew the beard onto my suit

My God your suit is handsome! suits that look like they have beards/moustaches are my weakness 😍