which is of course compounded with the fact you can't even lock to circumvent it if it does happen to you. if those two things are fixed then i might actually start to use this site

by which i mean im a chill person with reasonable opinions that would make only the most terminally online of people mad and those kinds of people have too much free time on their hands. and that's the kind of thing that has me paranoid about public lists

as it stands lists meant for people you don't like just seem to incite harassment more than anything. this place needs mass blocking tools where the only person who can see who's on the blocklist is the one who made it. like what twitter had (has? i havent used one in forever)

you know whats really turning me off this site though is the lack of an ability to private your account. insane i mean neurodivergent that this isnt an option

feeling a bit bold and crazy. what if i made new mutuals on a site im not really familiar with (at least in terms of userbase vibes)