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Mistress Jadis Ives

@msjadis.bsky.social

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⛓️Sydney Dominatrix⛓️ 🔥The Empress Elemental 🔥 🔥Sadist & Sovereign🔥 Bespoke BDSM experiences for Kink Connoisseurs 🪞 https://www.msjadis.com/

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 7d

Inspiring and seducing in Sydney
Thursday 9th (Fully Booked)
Friday 10th (Fully Booked)
Saturday 11th (Available)
Sunday 12th (One Spot left)

Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 8d

My job? Well, it involves both inspiring and seducing consent.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 12h

Good Morning Sydney! All set for a busy day of play. I'm very close to booked out for this tour but I do have some shorter spots available over the weekend.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 13h

I'm talking about less experienced Dommes telling me that they don't get requests for more niche or heavier activities.

Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 13h

A lot of subs do feel conflicted about their submissive desires. Being able to play with a Domme who is comfortable, confident and delights in their submission can be very helpful in resolving these inner conflicts.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 1d

Haute! There's nothing like translucent natural for sheer kink factor. 🔥🔥

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 1d

"I don't get requests for that." Me neither. I built relationships (sometimes over years), expanded trust levels and planted seeds, and now I get to do it!

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 2d

I really want to make one of you little piggies roll in this. 🤭🐽🐖

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 2d

subs don't just agree to obey, they want and need to.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 3d

Finding those thresholds.....
feat @athiedoll.bsky.social

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 4d

I don't craft a lot of "persona" around myself as a Domme, because I want my subs showing up to submit to Me, not to some projection of what a Domme should be.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 5d

This is why communication is essential, AND taking the time to get to know your sub's typical reactions before moving towards heavier play.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 5d

There are common themes, but everyone processes pain differently. Some people can look and feel very peaceful while they're processing the most intense sensations, while others have more dramatic reactions.

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peterpenitent.bsky.social @peterpenitent.bsky.social · 6d

Curvy, charismatic and classy, Mistress Jadis clearly combines confidence and competence - a creative and compassionately cruel curator of captivity and cadenced castigation complemented by cackles.

Commended to those craving a carmine caboose courtesy of classic corporal correction.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 6d

or to convert the booking into a double with a more experienced peer. Another option for requests that are not viable is to create a roleplay that captures the emotional resonance of the request without the physical risk.

Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 6d

In some cases, you may be able to modify aspects of the request to bring the risk profile down to a more acceptable level. Some requests may be beyond our personal skill set; in such cases, it’s our responsibility to refer the client to a peer better suited to fulfil it,

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 6d

Part of a ProDommes skillset is being able to eyeball an activity request and determine if and how it can be safely brought to life in the dungeon. Some requests are simply not safe, and it’s our job to say no.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 6d

Thanks for sharing this. They're not a be all and end all, they're part of the toolkit. Useful article tho, especially since I'm writing something on risk assessment and management right now!

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pebble @pebblesub.bsky.social · 6d

I learned this playing sports as a youngster. Practice and train as hard as I could. Then, during the game, have a calm mind and trust the work i put in. Later, my professional life reinforced this. Learn, grow, practice. Then, for the presentation, trust the work.

I apply this for sessions now.

Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 6d

Genuine confidence, in sessions and throughout life, stems from competence.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 6d

Genuine confidence, in sessions and throughout life, stems from competence.

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Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls @rubyenraylls.bsky.social · 7d

I love latex that is so glossy that you can use it as a mirror.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 7d

Inspiring and seducing in Sydney
Thursday 9th (Fully Booked)
Friday 10th (Fully Booked)
Saturday 11th (Available)
Sunday 12th (One Spot left)

Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 8d

My job? Well, it involves both inspiring and seducing consent.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 7d

Having an agreed-upon process for safewording can make it easier for a sub to safeword when needed.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 8d

My job? Well, it involves both inspiring and seducing consent.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 8d

I've decided to squeeze in one more tour before my annual harvest hiatus🚜🌾. If you're subscribed to my newsletter, the details just landed in your inbox. Swift and decisive action is essential this time around.

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 9d

Starting my day right thanks to one of my good boys who loves to see me indulged. ✨

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Mistress Jadis Ives @msjadis.bsky.social · 9d

Real life terror and discomfort feel completely different to hot fantasy terror and discomfort. Know where to draw the line.

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