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As women of color working within institutions and systems that center whiteness, we have some advice for white women, men, and those who still are not disrupting systems in ways that transform inequity toward justice.
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If being called a racist offends you, then check your behavior.
paper posted to the wall that says Reminder. Dear white women, If you don't want to be called a racist, spend your privilege.
November 1, 2025 at 11:27 PM
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We will continue to talk about racism, white supremacy, and the political nature of education. Black Lives Matter.
Reminder: Dear white women, there's no such thing as anti-white hate. Saying anti-white hate makes you racist. Racism = prejudice +power
October 20, 2025 at 1:37 AM
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Fight for those without your privilege.
A note posted to the wall that says "Reminder. Dear white women, It's your job to remove the hoops so I don't have to jump through them."
September 30, 2025 at 3:39 PM
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Sometimes there is a reason for ignoring.
A note taped to the wall that says Reminder, Dear white women, Your worth might be tied to how much you say, but my worth is not tied to how well I listen to you.
August 28, 2025 at 12:09 AM
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Listening is what is needed.
A note taped to the wall that says. Reminder. Dear white women, Listen Listen...That's it.
August 7, 2025 at 1:44 AM
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Stop complaining and step aside.
a note taped to the wall that says, Reminder: Dear white women, Are you scared, uncomfortable, tired, busy? Then give us the big bucks and retire.
July 30, 2025 at 6:48 PM
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Do not let the administration limit access to Head Start programs according to immigration status. This is wrong. Make your voice heard by speaking up and demanding your representatives reverse this decision.
Image of three children in a line playing outside. Words on this image say. Enough is enough. They deserve better. Immigration status should not determine a child's access to early care and education. Raise your voice and speak out. Call/email your representatives! A monarch butterfly hovers in the lower right corner.
July 11, 2025 at 10:46 PM
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Be genuine. That's the key.
July 3, 2025 at 11:16 PM
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You don't need to explain, and don't make us explain that to you.
A note posted on the wall that says Reminder: Dear white women, Before you explain something to a woman of color about race, just pause. Period.
June 24, 2025 at 9:15 PM
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Be more courageous than you think you are and say no to racism. Period.
Image of a note taped to the wall that says Reminder: Dear white women, Don't get your haircut by a racist. Don't vote for a racist. Don't let racism go unchallenged.
June 19, 2025 at 10:36 PM
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Taking to the streets to stand for justice and advocate for humanity. #NoKings #AbolishICE #justiceforall
Image of people protesting on the street. Below says justice. Humanity. #NoKings #AbolishICE
June 14, 2025 at 9:24 PM
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Let wisdom catch you!
A note taped to the wall that says Reminder. Dear white women, wisdom has been chasing you, but you have been too fast. Try stopping.
June 10, 2025 at 9:42 PM
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Not willing to explain again.
A note taped to the wall that says, Reminder. Dear white women, I already told you what the problem was. Below are the words listen. listen...
June 4, 2025 at 4:26 PM
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Sometimes it's not your merit that you got you the gig. #spendyourprivilege
A reminder note taped to the wall that says Dear white women, before you take that paid work that your bestie got you, remember that you are supposed to be woke. On the bottom is an image of three generic bills.
June 1, 2025 at 8:11 PM
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Honor the genius of BIPOC women!
Image of note on the wall that says: Reminder. Dear white women, Remember it's a privilege that you get to work with women of color. Their genius is beyond anything you can image. An image of a diamond on a pedestal in the lower right-hand corner.
May 27, 2025 at 6:36 PM
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Silence and absences are messages.
image of a reminder note on the wall that says: Reminder. Dear white women, When a woman of color withdraws, stops answering emails, doesn't show up to meetings, you did something wrong. The lower corner has an image of a person head down, hand on their head, with fuzzy thoughts coming from their head.
May 24, 2025 at 2:44 AM
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To our darling dearest white women colleagues...
image of a reminder note on a wall that says, Reminder. Dear white women, when a woman of color shares their experience, don't ask her how you can be more like her. An image in the lower corner of a brown woman covering her face with her forearm.
May 22, 2025 at 3:57 PM