Myjestik
@myjestik.bsky.social
My goal is to be the ear and shoulder you need to add a wider perspective to how you perceive life
How does a bird learn to fly? First they fall and as they fall they are given wings
November 28, 2025 at 9:52 PM
How does a bird learn to fly? First they fall and as they fall they are given wings
Is GUILT the hidden force holding your most important relationships together? It’s a painful question, but ignoring it keeps you stuck in a cycle of debt and obligation.
Most loyalty is built on fear, not love. Here’s how to spot the "Guilt Glue" and finally find genuine freedom. ⬇️
Most loyalty is built on fear, not love. Here’s how to spot the "Guilt Glue" and finally find genuine freedom. ⬇️
November 25, 2025 at 3:54 AM
Is GUILT the hidden force holding your most important relationships together? It’s a painful question, but ignoring it keeps you stuck in a cycle of debt and obligation.
Most loyalty is built on fear, not love. Here’s how to spot the "Guilt Glue" and finally find genuine freedom. ⬇️
Most loyalty is built on fear, not love. Here’s how to spot the "Guilt Glue" and finally find genuine freedom. ⬇️
When life turns you inside out, know that you're reversible
November 23, 2025 at 5:55 PM
When life turns you inside out, know that you're reversible
Selfishness is withholding. The "Scarcity Self" focuses inward, hoarding inherent value. This denial builds a wall, blocking the flow of contribution. The shift is from self-imprisonment to authentic flow.
Full argument: myjestik.blog/mind/the-ult...
Full argument: myjestik.blog/mind/the-ult...
The Ultimate Selfish Act: Why Insecurity Is a Denial of God - MYJESTIK
We redefine self-doubt as the ego's denial of its own inherent perfection, starving the universe of its truth.
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November 21, 2025 at 12:32 AM
Selfishness is withholding. The "Scarcity Self" focuses inward, hoarding inherent value. This denial builds a wall, blocking the flow of contribution. The shift is from self-imprisonment to authentic flow.
Full argument: myjestik.blog/mind/the-ult...
Full argument: myjestik.blog/mind/the-ult...
Anything that requires persuasion isn't true
November 14, 2025 at 11:46 PM
Anything that requires persuasion isn't true
I no longer want to be identified with my job title.
Stepping out of the performance has allowed me to be a steward of the position, rather than the owner. It's not cynical; it's being closer to what's real. myjestik.blog/mind/the-mea...
Stepping out of the performance has allowed me to be a steward of the position, rather than the owner. It's not cynical; it's being closer to what's real. myjestik.blog/mind/the-mea...
The Meaning of Work is the Work Itself - MYJESTIK
I fell for the career "ladder" lie. Discover why removing your expectations can make your work life more present and less disappointing.
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October 31, 2025 at 7:17 PM
I no longer want to be identified with my job title.
Stepping out of the performance has allowed me to be a steward of the position, rather than the owner. It's not cynical; it's being closer to what's real. myjestik.blog/mind/the-mea...
Stepping out of the performance has allowed me to be a steward of the position, rather than the owner. It's not cynical; it's being closer to what's real. myjestik.blog/mind/the-mea...
Love isn't a noun you have to earn. It's not a product; it's the blue sky—always there, but often blocked by our clouds. ☁️
The biggest clouds? Comparison and Resistance
Remove the barriers, see the sky. 👇 myjestik.blog/heart/how-to...
The biggest clouds? Comparison and Resistance
Remove the barriers, see the sky. 👇 myjestik.blog/heart/how-to...
How to Remove the Barriers to Intrinsic Love - MYJESTIK
Learn how to remove the "clouds" of resistance and comparison to find true, intrinsic love and end your emotional suffering.
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October 26, 2025 at 7:17 PM
Love isn't a noun you have to earn. It's not a product; it's the blue sky—always there, but often blocked by our clouds. ☁️
The biggest clouds? Comparison and Resistance
Remove the barriers, see the sky. 👇 myjestik.blog/heart/how-to...
The biggest clouds? Comparison and Resistance
Remove the barriers, see the sky. 👇 myjestik.blog/heart/how-to...
If your relationship requires sameness to survive, it's built on fear, not truth.
Love is the absence of rejection. It's being present even in disagreement. Differences expand you; they don't threaten the bond. myjestik.blog/mind/the-dif...
Love is the absence of rejection. It's being present even in disagreement. Differences expand you; they don't threaten the bond. myjestik.blog/mind/the-dif...
The Difference Between Unity, Agreement, and True Love - MYJESTIK
Learn why true love doesn't require agreement, and how prioritizing emotional integrity is essential for a deep, non-conditional relationship.
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October 24, 2025 at 7:17 PM
If your relationship requires sameness to survive, it's built on fear, not truth.
Love is the absence of rejection. It's being present even in disagreement. Differences expand you; they don't threaten the bond. myjestik.blog/mind/the-dif...
Love is the absence of rejection. It's being present even in disagreement. Differences expand you; they don't threaten the bond. myjestik.blog/mind/the-dif...
Only here to ride the current
October 23, 2025 at 7:17 PM
Only here to ride the current
It’s the energy wasted arguing with reality—the gap between what is and your belief in what should be.
The secret? Don't fight the pain. You can use it as a signal. It’s a teacher guiding you back to the truth: you are already whole.
Stop arguing, start accepting. 👇 myjestik.blog/mind/the-tru...
The secret? Don't fight the pain. You can use it as a signal. It’s a teacher guiding you back to the truth: you are already whole.
Stop arguing, start accepting. 👇 myjestik.blog/mind/the-tru...
The True Root of Suffering: Why Arguing With Reality Creates Pain - MYJESTIK
Stop treating pain as punishment. Suffering is just the friction between what is and your belief in what should be.
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October 17, 2025 at 7:17 PM
It’s the energy wasted arguing with reality—the gap between what is and your belief in what should be.
The secret? Don't fight the pain. You can use it as a signal. It’s a teacher guiding you back to the truth: you are already whole.
Stop arguing, start accepting. 👇 myjestik.blog/mind/the-tru...
The secret? Don't fight the pain. You can use it as a signal. It’s a teacher guiding you back to the truth: you are already whole.
Stop arguing, start accepting. 👇 myjestik.blog/mind/the-tru...
True leadership isn't about being flawless; it's about being human. Vulnerability > Perfection.
This new article examines the reasons behind this phenomenon and offers guidance on how to address it.
myjestik.blog/mind/the-per...
This new article examines the reasons behind this phenomenon and offers guidance on how to address it.
myjestik.blog/mind/the-per...
The Perfect Manager: Why Infallibility Kills Teams - MYJESTIK
Learn how blame deflection and micromanagement destroy psychological safety, and why vulnerable leadership is the key to building trust.
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October 12, 2025 at 10:46 PM
True leadership isn't about being flawless; it's about being human. Vulnerability > Perfection.
This new article examines the reasons behind this phenomenon and offers guidance on how to address it.
myjestik.blog/mind/the-per...
This new article examines the reasons behind this phenomenon and offers guidance on how to address it.
myjestik.blog/mind/the-per...
Is free will an illusion? The idea of a deterministic universe can be scary, making us feel like puppets. But what if surrender, not control, is the key to true freedom? Explore how to find peace in a pre-written script.
myjestik.blog/mind/overcom...
myjestik.blog/mind/overcom...
Overcoming the Fear of Determinism & Finding Freedom in Trust - MYJESTIK
Discover how ancient spiritual wisdom and nature can help you find profound peace and liberation by trusting the flow of life.
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October 10, 2025 at 10:46 PM
Is free will an illusion? The idea of a deterministic universe can be scary, making us feel like puppets. But what if surrender, not control, is the key to true freedom? Explore how to find peace in a pre-written script.
myjestik.blog/mind/overcom...
myjestik.blog/mind/overcom...
Every path is the right path
October 10, 2025 at 7:17 PM
Every path is the right path
We think we have free will, but what we really crave is control.
Our brains are wired for determinism (A → B) because it brings order to a chaotic world. But this comforting belief creates a powerful illusion of control.
Why do we fall for it? A deep dive: myjestik.blog/mind/the-ill...
Our brains are wired for determinism (A → B) because it brings order to a chaotic world. But this comforting belief creates a powerful illusion of control.
Why do we fall for it? A deep dive: myjestik.blog/mind/the-ill...
The Illusion of Control: Why We Crave a Predictable World - MYJESTIK
Explore the psychological comfort of predictability and why our need for control might be a comforting illusion.
myjestik.blog
October 5, 2025 at 10:46 PM
We think we have free will, but what we really crave is control.
Our brains are wired for determinism (A → B) because it brings order to a chaotic world. But this comforting belief creates a powerful illusion of control.
Why do we fall for it? A deep dive: myjestik.blog/mind/the-ill...
Our brains are wired for determinism (A → B) because it brings order to a chaotic world. But this comforting belief creates a powerful illusion of control.
Why do we fall for it? A deep dive: myjestik.blog/mind/the-ill...
Tired of feeling like your life is an endless improvement project?
We're taught to "earn" our perfection, but that's a trap. It isn't an outcome to be achieved. It's a perspective to adopt. It's about seeing the perfection that's already here, right now.
Read more: myjestik.blog/mind/the-per...
We're taught to "earn" our perfection, but that's a trap. It isn't an outcome to be achieved. It's a perspective to adopt. It's about seeing the perfection that's already here, right now.
Read more: myjestik.blog/mind/the-per...
The Perfection Delusion: Why Earning Your Worth Is a Trap - MYJESTIK
Learn how to stop chasing an earned ideal and recognize the inherent perfection that exists within you right now, just by changing your perspective.
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October 3, 2025 at 7:17 PM
Tired of feeling like your life is an endless improvement project?
We're taught to "earn" our perfection, but that's a trap. It isn't an outcome to be achieved. It's a perspective to adopt. It's about seeing the perfection that's already here, right now.
Read more: myjestik.blog/mind/the-per...
We're taught to "earn" our perfection, but that's a trap. It isn't an outcome to be achieved. It's a perspective to adopt. It's about seeing the perfection that's already here, right now.
Read more: myjestik.blog/mind/the-per...
The pastor asked me to testify. I told him I ain't no snitch
October 1, 2025 at 7:17 PM
The pastor asked me to testify. I told him I ain't no snitch