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Nandor
@nandortheelf.bsky.social
Just an autistic guy, trying to do the right thing. Yes, I do know better than you. He/him.
Adventures are best shared with people who understand and guide you.
The Behavior Biz does neither of these things.
Don´t subject your child to ABA in any form.
Find autistic-led support instead.
December 16, 2025 at 11:25 AM
I had no idea what the word salad meant, but knowing it spoilt the game for at least one player made me smile 🙂
December 16, 2025 at 11:17 AM
Esther, please find another line of work.
More and more people are realising ABA is always (ALWAYS) abusive. The field will cease existing.
Find other work while your reputation can still stand.
December 15, 2025 at 12:19 PM
ABA doesn´t work.
It´s abusive and causes lots of harm for the clients.
If you want to help autistic people, find autistic-led support instead.
Let ABA bleed out and die the way it should´ve done thirty years ago.
December 15, 2025 at 12:17 PM
You´re there for the wiggles, the worries, the whoopsies, and the wins.
Your clients are there to be subjected to abusive practises.

And you wonder why people hate ABA.
December 15, 2025 at 12:14 PM
Still sessions available?
Having trouble selling abuse sessions now people are more aware that it is, in fact, abuse?

Just dissolve yourself and find a job that helps people instead of hurting them. Everyone wins.
December 15, 2025 at 12:11 PM
Good choice.
There is no ethical ABA. Becoming a BCBA would have hurt you in the long run. Find other ways to do actual good, you've made a right step here.
December 15, 2025 at 12:05 PM
You can´t provide ABA and say autistic voices matter. It´s one or the other.
You´ve clearly made your choice, let´s not pretend this will go anywhere.
You´ll continue your harmful practises until you´re shut down, and then you´ll whine about autistic people using their voices.
Let´s skip ahead.
December 10, 2025 at 12:24 PM
Oh yes, can´t afford not to charge the victims for their abuse.
November 12, 2025 at 12:48 PM
Using Rowling as a positive example discredits what you´re trying to convey.
Not knowing using Rowling as a positive example discredits what you´re trying to convey discredits everything you say.

Please do better.
November 11, 2025 at 10:04 AM
Virtual abuse is still abuse.
November 11, 2025 at 7:26 AM
Scripting and role-playing, as well as ABA on the whole, are destructive in the long term.
Teaching children this is what they have to do to be accepted is abuse.
Abolish ABA, fund autistic-led support instead.
November 11, 2025 at 7:25 AM
Nah, abolish ABA in all its forms.
November 11, 2025 at 7:21 AM
Roemer: "De zwarte Amerikaanse soldaten krijgen via de panelen de erkenning voor de rol die zij speelden [...]. Erkenning die ze vanwege de diepgewortelde segregatie in het Amerikaanse leger destijds niet of nauwelijks kregen."

Zet dat laatste deel maar weer in tegenwoordige tijd...
November 10, 2025 at 2:31 PM
She used to be a good person, but chipped away until there was nothing left but the sad, angry prune we see today.
None of her words mean anything anymore. I´d advise to just ignore anything she says, unless it requires pushback.
Let her die the way she lived: bitter and resentful.
November 10, 2025 at 2:19 PM
Good. She doesn´t need a platform anymore, after only using it to cause harm for years.
Time to hear from other, more informed people.
November 10, 2025 at 2:13 PM
No parent who loves their child uses ABA techniques.
November 10, 2025 at 9:01 AM
Stay away from Rise and Shine ABA is you care about the autistic people in your life.
It´s abuse in a shiny coat. Don´t be blinded, research ABA and find autistic-led support instead.
November 10, 2025 at 8:55 AM
... and then became a major bigot and pissed it all away.
November 10, 2025 at 8:39 AM
Dan denk je even dat ze een moreel kompas hebben gevonden, en dan lees je de laatste twee woorden...
November 4, 2025 at 8:16 AM
Well, I'm not asking permission and am just gonna do it 😁
October 29, 2025 at 1:21 PM
At Bright Steps, autistic people are being abused with methods that have been proven to be harmful.
Keep (autistic) people you love away from this place.
October 29, 2025 at 1:08 PM
The best change would be abolishing ABA altogether.
Any chance that's on the agenda?
October 20, 2025 at 11:53 AM
Then why are you being an ass when someone speaks out against a practise that harms us?
October 15, 2025 at 6:48 AM
It sounds like you're dismissing autistic voices when speaking about autistic people.
October 15, 2025 at 6:45 AM