And I thought I had wild comphet mental gymnastics during my closeted era

Wait, what???

✨organized chaos✨

I’ve dealt with that too, so I can empathize. I’m sorry you’ve dealt with rough family issues too 🫂

Yeah, it sounds like it. I usually get microaggressions shoving me into a box of femininity, when anyone who really knows me at all knows I’m not that feminine

I wish my family would acknowledge my efforts to look more butch

I don’t think so. I don’t think they even considered me as a factor in their decision