Louise Ting
@neuro-observant.bsky.social
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Neurodivergent. LGBTQ+ 🌈 Passionate about autism advocacy, mental health, and research. Community volunteer. Love 🐈, PPI, art and learning Creator of this popular PPI resource (used by research orgs & universities globally): tiny.cc/PPIdiagram
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Impressive work as always, Moti. Interesting to hear the context :) Very powerful!
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This encounter is a perfect illustration of why I made the post that I did yesterday…

Folks, AUTISM IS NOT A MONOLITH

It shows up in many different ways. That’s the beauty of the spectrum ❤️ The joy of diversity

Instead of questioning autistic people, try questioning your assumptions 😊
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Not even 8am here and someone's informed me my daughter can't really be autistic because she can dress herself and use the bathroom on her own.

I could explain to them autism is a spectrum but making sure I never interact with them again seems better.
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me feel lesser for them or any of my ND traits. The diagnosis
wasn’t necessary/ important for me to be seen, understood, and accepted by him
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That’s beautiful… We need more of that in the world ❤️ When one of my best friends found out I was autistic, one of the things that I realised I loved about him and our friendship was that he also didn’t know and didn’t care… in that he always supported my autistic needs and never made
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wellbeing), our strengths would shine (many exist but are not given light currently) and we’d have so much to celebrate, rather than spending a lot of energy every day on just trying to survive
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Absolutely. So much of the disability comes from society and the way environments have been constructed. Imagine how different our lives would be if we were all able to live authentically and supported to flourish! I’m sure our health outcomes would be drastically better (especially mental
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understand why others might just refuse to engage in that kind of debate at all and distance themselves/ let go of the friendship. Family has been a really tricky one for me too
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Yeah, friends really should be more supportive. I struggled with a few close friends accepting my diagnosis for the first year or so but we’re in a good place now so it was ultimately worth it. Still, was an upsetting and stressful thing to go through so I can totally
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I wish I didn’t have to say this but…

If someone tells you they’re autistic and you find that hard to believe, it might be because:

- They don’t feel safe enough to unmask around you
- Your knowledge of autism is limited

Arguing won’t help. Kindness, curiosity, and listening to understand, will ❤️
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I felt the same way! We need more balanced and destigmatising research like this for sure 😊 Glad you enjoyed reading the summary ❤️

P.S. I’m halfway through my free book! It’s helping me through severe illness so thanks again for the recommendation :)
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Yeah, the effort required to manage even just one task (let alone switching to a different one or having multiple things to take care of in a day) can be so draining 😓
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6. Routines

7. Body doubling

8. Planning your day around your energy levels

9. Reduce the pressure of having to do something perfectly

e.g. helpful self-talk:
- “I don’t have to finish it- just start”
- “I can stop again if it’s too much”
- “Doing it badly is still doing it”

10. Self-compassion
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What might help:

1. Breaking down tasks into smaller steps

2. Gentle alarms or timers

3. Visual schedules and To Do lists

4. “Warm-up” actions e.g. sit up in bed for a few minutes before standing

5. Sensory tools to reduce overwhelm e.g. noise-cancelling headphones when leaving the house
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Autistic inertia is related to executive dysfunction (e.g. task initiation), motor planning (the brain sending signals to the body to carry out physical actions), nervous system regulation, and challenges with transitions

Can be worsened by stress, burnout, fatigue, and sensory issues
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Autistic inertia = difficulty with starting, stopping and switching tasks

It can happen even when:

- you want to do the task
- the task is important or urgent
- you have a clear understanding of what needs to be done
- it’s something as “simple” as getting out of bed or the shower
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Yeah, same. It can be really hard trying to have/ keep friends whilst also struggling so much with overwhelm and exhaustion 😢
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Aww, thank you for the support! Glad my content is helpful 😊
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Conventions can be SO overwhelming! It’s really hard cuz the themes are perfect for geeky autistics but the crowds, chaos, lights, noise and claustrophobia are very much not >.<
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As autistic people, we’re often excluded (either intentionally or unintentionally) so being included and invited means a lot

But even when we’re welcomed, we may need to be careful about pacing, what our needs are, and recognising that these can also fluctuate

#AutismAwareness
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Sometimes autism is wanting so badly to be a part of things but then being totally overwhelmed when you are 💔
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I agree! I think there are now some hiring programmes which you can now get onto more easily because of companies realising that they’re missing out on autistic talent (and seeking to be more inclusive in general when recruiting) but these schemes are not commonplace yet
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Aww, I’m glad it was useful 😊
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being Greek mythology month for me 😍 The only issue is both that and the game are intense so I’ll need the energy and nerves for them first 😅

Glad you’re having a lot of fun so far 😊
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Ooh, good to know. The bloodstones were annoying haha but I did really like some of the upgrades you could get for them e.g. crystal laser.

Odysseus is one of the best myths! My pre-order for a book which is a retelling of Medea arrived the other week too so October may end up