Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel)
@nicomaramckay.com
Historian in Tkaronto (Toronto). Likes bats, monsters, sincereposting, alt text, and DEIA. Genderqueer. Trans. Autistic. 40s. 👬 🧛 nicomaramckay.com
There will be typos.
Ephemeral Record of queer and trans histories: patreon.com/ephemeralrecord
There will be typos.
Ephemeral Record of queer and trans histories: patreon.com/ephemeralrecord
Every weekend I am humbled anew.
January 10, 2026 at 9:24 PM
Every weekend I am humbled anew.
Yes, I have followed tutorials, but it still comes out like a slightly more put together lump of fabric.
It's fine, I don't need to be among the hallowed dozen.
It's fine, I don't need to be among the hallowed dozen.
January 10, 2026 at 9:24 PM
Yes, I have followed tutorials, but it still comes out like a slightly more put together lump of fabric.
It's fine, I don't need to be among the hallowed dozen.
It's fine, I don't need to be among the hallowed dozen.
I messaged them to ask why I was banned. I'll have to wait to see what they say.
Wild that I was banned before I even had a chance to really use the app.
Wild that I was banned before I even had a chance to really use the app.
January 10, 2026 at 8:09 PM
I messaged them to ask why I was banned. I'll have to wait to see what they say.
Wild that I was banned before I even had a chance to really use the app.
Wild that I was banned before I even had a chance to really use the app.
I literally have no idea what I did wrong.
There was nothing provocative in my profile, which was filled out according to the options they privided. My bio was brief, saying basically that I'm a historian and I work for a nonprofit.
I'm wondering if it's because I'm trans masc?
There was nothing provocative in my profile, which was filled out according to the options they privided. My bio was brief, saying basically that I'm a historian and I work for a nonprofit.
I'm wondering if it's because I'm trans masc?
January 10, 2026 at 8:02 PM
I literally have no idea what I did wrong.
There was nothing provocative in my profile, which was filled out according to the options they privided. My bio was brief, saying basically that I'm a historian and I work for a nonprofit.
I'm wondering if it's because I'm trans masc?
There was nothing provocative in my profile, which was filled out according to the options they privided. My bio was brief, saying basically that I'm a historian and I work for a nonprofit.
I'm wondering if it's because I'm trans masc?
Every person I had the potential to match with was trans, which the app seemed to self-select for, I guess because I'm trans?
(Is Bumble BFF solely T4T??)
But of the dozen or so profiles I clicked through, only one was trans masc. Idk if that had something to do with why?
No mascs allowed??
(Is Bumble BFF solely T4T??)
But of the dozen or so profiles I clicked through, only one was trans masc. Idk if that had something to do with why?
No mascs allowed??
January 10, 2026 at 7:58 PM
Every person I had the potential to match with was trans, which the app seemed to self-select for, I guess because I'm trans?
(Is Bumble BFF solely T4T??)
But of the dozen or so profiles I clicked through, only one was trans masc. Idk if that had something to do with why?
No mascs allowed??
(Is Bumble BFF solely T4T??)
But of the dozen or so profiles I clicked through, only one was trans masc. Idk if that had something to do with why?
No mascs allowed??
Thank you for providing alt text.
January 10, 2026 at 7:00 PM
Thank you for providing alt text.
Defund the police. Invest money in communities.
January 9, 2026 at 10:51 PM
Defund the police. Invest money in communities.