The man completely missed my blogging career and 100+ dildo collection when we were still married, and he had no idea I spent the last 6 months of our marriage preparing to leave until he came home and I was gone. He's just a touch oblivious...

He did block just to help me avoid a potential headache.

The Ex isn't super active on FB, and probably never looks at suggested friends. If he did, I'm not sure he's realize the suggestion is my partner.

I don't owe him an audience or an explanation. I don't really care if he thinks I'm a honewrecking slut. I'd probably laugh at anything he had to say.

Which is a delightful realization. He has no power over me.

And if he does know, what can he really do with that?

The kids are all over 18 and already know.

My mom knows. My boss knows.

He can send shaming texts. That's about it.

Am I worried? Not particularly.

The likelihood that M would recognize the name/face is low. And he's...not observant. Let's remember that I hid my blog and try collection from him for 3 solid years. And he missed all the signs that I was planning to leave.

I didn't think of this before my experiment. Fortunately, I give zero fucks about the desk clerk knowing me, myself and I have plans for the night.

I think vibrators should be available in hotel vending machines or via room service.

If you are in a hotel that makes delivery folks leave all orders at the front desk, and you are a person worried about others knowing what you purchased, maybe ask for your order to be double bagged.

At least I don't have to interact with him now. Kids are all over 18, talk to them directly. I am DONE with him.

If I stacked all of mine into a tower...

Fetterman. Fucking Fetterman...

Epilogue: Went back to hotel with partner, his domme and one of her pets. A fabulous time was had by all.

The whole motley crew is now at Denny's. Apparently this is tradition...

I'm getting a giggle out of the fact that the BDSM venue also hosts wedding receptions when it isn't in dungeon mode.