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It spikes cortisol when you need it to drop.
Train earlier in the day.
Your body needs time to wind down from intense exercise.
Late workouts = wired brain = poor sleep.
It spikes cortisol when you need it to drop.
Train earlier in the day.
Your body needs time to wind down from intense exercise.
Late workouts = wired brain = poor sleep.
Stress and the stressor and the stress ≠ the same thing.
The stressor = the problem (inbox, bills, boss)
The stress = your body's response (tension, racing heart)
You can't always fix the problem, but you can process the stress.
Stress and the stressor and the stress ≠ the same thing.
The stressor = the problem (inbox, bills, boss)
The stress = your body's response (tension, racing heart)
You can't always fix the problem, but you can process the stress.
Don't watch the clock. It fuels anxiety. Flip it around.
If you can't sleep, get up. Do something boring in dim light.
Don't try harder to sleep. You can't force it.
Let your body do what it knows how to do.
Don't watch the clock. It fuels anxiety. Flip it around.
If you can't sleep, get up. Do something boring in dim light.
Don't try harder to sleep. You can't force it.
Let your body do what it knows how to do.
Here's a powerful question:
If nobody clapped, nobody watched, and nobody gave you a gold star... Would you still be doing what you're doing?
Here's a powerful question:
If nobody clapped, nobody watched, and nobody gave you a gold star... Would you still be doing what you're doing?
It's not that you're 'broken'. It's that your body never got to complete the cycle.
You're allowed to rest without guilt.
You're allowed to realign.
You're allowed to feel like yourself again.
Recovery is smarter, not tougher.
It's not that you're 'broken'. It's that your body never got to complete the cycle.
You're allowed to rest without guilt.
You're allowed to realign.
You're allowed to feel like yourself again.
Recovery is smarter, not tougher.
And habits can be unlearned.
Stop trying to control every variable. Stop ruminating and replaying scenarios.
You don't have to fight your mind. Just work with it.
And habits can be unlearned.
Stop trying to control every variable. Stop ruminating and replaying scenarios.
You don't have to fight your mind. Just work with it.
They try to think their way out of overthinking.
Which is like trying to tidy your house by throwing everything into one drawer and hoping for the best.
Overthinking isn't solved with more thinking. It's solved with awareness and action.
They try to think their way out of overthinking.
Which is like trying to tidy your house by throwing everything into one drawer and hoping for the best.
Overthinking isn't solved with more thinking. It's solved with awareness and action.
Come back to your senses:
5 things you see
4 things you can touch
3 things you hear
2 things you smell
1 thing you taste
This grounding tool pulls you out of your head and into the NOW.
Come back to your senses:
5 things you see
4 things you can touch
3 things you hear
2 things you smell
1 thing you taste
This grounding tool pulls you out of your head and into the NOW.
No food 2-3 hours before bed (digestion competes with deep sleep)
Cool your room to 18-20°C (your core temp drops naturally for sleep)
Wind down on purpose: hot shower, journal, stretch, fiction book.
No screens.
Try for a week.
No food 2-3 hours before bed (digestion competes with deep sleep)
Cool your room to 18-20°C (your core temp drops naturally for sleep)
Wind down on purpose: hot shower, journal, stretch, fiction book.
No screens.
Try for a week.
Cortisol blocks melatonin.
No melatonin = no sleep.
No sleep = more stress.
It's one of those frustrating loops your body gets stuck in.
Break the cycle: manage stress during the day to sleep better at night.
Cortisol blocks melatonin.
No melatonin = no sleep.
No sleep = more stress.
It's one of those frustrating loops your body gets stuck in.
Break the cycle: manage stress during the day to sleep better at night.
Try the 5-5-10 breathing method:
Inhale for 5 seconds
Hold for 5 seconds
Exhale for 10 seconds
Long exhales activate your "rest & digest" nervous system.
Your body doesn't need you to fix everything.
It just needs to know the danger has passed.
Try the 5-5-10 breathing method:
Inhale for 5 seconds
Hold for 5 seconds
Exhale for 10 seconds
Long exhales activate your "rest & digest" nervous system.
Your body doesn't need you to fix everything.
It just needs to know the danger has passed.
📆 Schedule your worry.
Give yourself 10 minutes a day to obsess all you want. Set a recurring "Worry Time" in your calendar.
Outside of that? It's a no-rumination zone.
📆 Schedule your worry.
Give yourself 10 minutes a day to obsess all you want. Set a recurring "Worry Time" in your calendar.
Outside of that? It's a no-rumination zone.
Sleep Drive = hunger for sleep (driven by adenosine buildup) Circadian Rhythm = your 24-hour internal clock (driven by light/darkness)
Coffee at 4pm + screens at 11pm = confused brain.
Sleep Drive = hunger for sleep (driven by adenosine buildup) Circadian Rhythm = your 24-hour internal clock (driven by light/darkness)
Coffee at 4pm + screens at 11pm = confused brain.
You freak out, swim to shore, collapse in the sand, feel relief.
That's a completed stress cycle.
In modern life? The shark never leaves.
Your body stays on high alert.
Complete the cycle: Move. Breathe. Connect. Express.
You freak out, swim to shore, collapse in the sand, feel relief.
That's a completed stress cycle.
In modern life? The shark never leaves.
Your body stays on high alert.
Complete the cycle: Move. Breathe. Connect. Express.
“Hustle more. Push harder. Add more to your plate.”
But you don’t need more.
You need to stop.
Stop pretending you’ll change “someday”.
Stop chasing goals that don’t feel like yours.
Stop trying to hate yourself into progress.
Remove what’s draining you.
“Hustle more. Push harder. Add more to your plate.”
But you don’t need more.
You need to stop.
Stop pretending you’ll change “someday”.
Stop chasing goals that don’t feel like yours.
Stop trying to hate yourself into progress.
Remove what’s draining you.
Until it isn't.
Until it isn't.
Your attention gets hijacked every 47 seconds.
Not from lack of discipline, but from 500 daily context switches.
What if you treated attention like money? Where would you invest it?
Your attention gets hijacked every 47 seconds.
Not from lack of discipline, but from 500 daily context switches.
What if you treated attention like money? Where would you invest it?
☀️ Morning sleep hacks:
Wake up at the same time every day (yes, even after rough nights)
Get outside early. Morning sunlight resets your melatonin clock
Cut caffeine by 2pm.
Try it for a week. Watch your sleep shift.
☀️ Morning sleep hacks:
Wake up at the same time every day (yes, even after rough nights)
Get outside early. Morning sunlight resets your melatonin clock
Cut caffeine by 2pm.
Try it for a week. Watch your sleep shift.
Now, I help burned out high achievers ditch unwanted habits, own their wellbeing, and design a life they love.
Join us! 🚀
Now, I help burned out high achievers ditch unwanted habits, own their wellbeing, and design a life they love.
Join us! 🚀
"I'm not good enough." "What if I fail?" "I should have done better."
🎶 Time to change the playlist!
Replace that old thought with something true AND empowering. Repeat it until it sticks.
New soundtrack, new you.
"I'm not good enough." "What if I fail?" "I should have done better."
🎶 Time to change the playlist!
Replace that old thought with something true AND empowering. Repeat it until it sticks.
New soundtrack, new you.
Pretend I’ll change “someday”
Instead, I got honest about what I was really ready for
Chase goals that weren’t mine
Authentic > impressive
Try to hate myself into change
kindness is a better fuel than shame
Try subtracting before you add
Pretend I’ll change “someday”
Instead, I got honest about what I was really ready for
Chase goals that weren’t mine
Authentic > impressive
Try to hate myself into change
kindness is a better fuel than shame
Try subtracting before you add
Six months into this writing journey, and I can finally feel things clicking.
Let me know what you think!
https://open.substack.com/pub/unwrittenpotential/p/the-subtraction-method?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android
&r=4q7aqy
Six months into this writing journey, and I can finally feel things clicking.
Let me know what you think!
https://open.substack.com/pub/unwrittenpotential/p/the-subtraction-method?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android
&r=4q7aqy
More habits. More routines. More systems.
But what if the real breakthrough comes from stopping?
Tomorrow, I’ll show you how to feel better, clearer.
By doing less, not more..
If you want to join us, subscribe: https://noemiemooney.kit.com/
More habits. More routines. More systems.
But what if the real breakthrough comes from stopping?
Tomorrow, I’ll show you how to feel better, clearer.
By doing less, not more..
If you want to join us, subscribe: https://noemiemooney.kit.com/
You have to move it through your body.
4 evidence-based ways to complete the stress cycle:
Move (walk, dance, shake)
Connect (hug for 20 seconds, laugh with a friend)
Express (write, sing, scream into a pillow)
Breathe (5-5-10 method)
You have to move it through your body.
4 evidence-based ways to complete the stress cycle:
Move (walk, dance, shake)
Connect (hug for 20 seconds, laugh with a friend)
Express (write, sing, scream into a pillow)
Breathe (5-5-10 method)
Brutal but true.
You might fall asleep quickly, but you'll wake up feeling unrefreshed.
Your sleep architecture gets completely disrupted.
Limit alcohol if you want quality rest.
Brutal but true.
You might fall asleep quickly, but you'll wake up feeling unrefreshed.
Your sleep architecture gets completely disrupted.
Limit alcohol if you want quality rest.