The Nonbinarian Librarian
nonbinarian.bsky.social
The Nonbinarian Librarian
@nonbinarian.bsky.social
Nonbinary librarian queerdo. I run a makerspace and love all things crafty. Generally nerdy, pathologically optimistic and dirty socialist.
When you compare regret rates to suicide rates i can only come to one conclusion: if you oppose your child transitioning you are saying you'd rather your kid be dead than transgender.
June 18, 2025 at 4:00 PM
Got my passport with the wrong gender marker. Not surprised just disappointed.
March 1, 2025 at 11:48 PM
Some lady came into the library and complained about a man using the women's bathroom. When my very sweet coworker explained we allow people to use the restroom that best aligns with their gender, the lady said, "It's federal law. We won." Four more years of this even in liberal land.
February 24, 2025 at 3:22 AM
Talked with my mom and, describing why I hadn't called her, realized that it has been A Lot (TM). Going to take this week as an opportunity to be kind to myself and really rest between the few chores that need doing. I think some silly mischief is long overdue. 🦊🤪
February 11, 2025 at 1:57 AM
Loki is unimpressed with all of the human flailing.
February 9, 2025 at 5:56 AM
Feeling better today. Hope is staring at me saying 'bout time.

Meanwhile, my cat wants to snuggle and who am I to say no?
January 27, 2025 at 3:24 AM
Recognizing today that I am not okay and not able to muster a "but I will be." Reminding myself that some days it is okay just to survive.

I do have good work to do, but it doesn't have to be Right Now.
January 25, 2025 at 6:04 AM
Feeling this tonight:

"Why can't we give love that one more chance?
'Cause love's such an old-fashioned word and love dares you to care for the people on the edge of the night and love dares you to change our way of caring about ourselves.
This is our last dance
This is ourselves under pressure"
January 24, 2025 at 4:26 AM
I'd be lying if I said I wasn't absolutely terrified of being found out I'm an imposter. Still, sitting down with fellow queer folks with a goal of making the world a little better is worth it. Thousands of people have done this so we can too.
January 23, 2025 at 3:50 AM
I'm gonna try for my passport before the x gets taken away, but we'll see. If the answer is no, well.... I sued the state of Oklahoma and I will sue the federal government if I have to.
January 22, 2025 at 2:49 AM
One step closer to starting my nonprofit. Sooooo many steps to go. Still, if I want to feel safer I need to push for safety for all the queers in my small corner of the world. Slogging through paperwork is a small price to pay for community.
January 17, 2025 at 4:20 AM
My kiddo asked how I deal with the quieter transphobes around me. A woman changed lanes in the swimming pool when she figured out I was trans. I told him I didn't notice which is depressingly true. I feel for him as he navigates being trans in this weird time.
January 16, 2025 at 4:25 AM
Downloading all of my photos then I'm shutting down my Meta accounts today. The few people I follow on there are not worth my mental health.
January 11, 2025 at 10:48 PM
I'm trying to channel some activist energy today but it is hard first thing in the morning. Maybe I'll take a nap then destroy capitalism.

"I'd found myself becoming more immobile when I think a little girl in the world can't do anything...If I have a care in the world I have a gift to bring"
January 10, 2025 at 5:50 PM
Today has been hard after hearing about a genuine, kind soul dying because the system failed him over and over again. He was houseless but never homeless because he made everyone feel like he was home. Prince of Fools, defender of the library and friend, rest in the warmth you deserve.
January 9, 2025 at 5:25 AM