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notwaving.bsky.social
madonna/whore industrial complex
@notwaving.bsky.social
British, enby, ~elder millennial~, disabled, often furious.

Write, quiz, photograph, read, sleep, repeat.

Passionate about disabled access and inclusion.

Equally embarrassing!
October 10, 2025 at 3:03 PM
I can't see their profile or message at all so maybe I'm blocked by them? I'm not entirely sure how BSky works with that still.
August 24, 2025 at 2:22 AM
How can you tell it's him?? Can you IP track?
August 23, 2025 at 8:56 PM
Partner and I have seen them 3 times together, tbh we have pretty similar taste in music. The only things he goes to with friends and not me is emo nostalgia stuff 😂
August 20, 2025 at 8:13 PM
Aye, we're heading back to London for a few days for them. (I lived there most of my life, had to move out of the city when it came time to buy somewhere of my own because I am not rich lol)
August 20, 2025 at 11:19 AM
Next: cholesterol checks in modern Britain?
August 16, 2025 at 12:26 AM
The same way you do any break up, one day at a time. Therapy would probably help? I guess you could also consider the positives you've gained from an otherwise lost decade - experience, resilience, your daughter!
August 15, 2025 at 7:46 PM
Well at least it's something, and they are things you can replace even if they won't be exactly the same. I don't want to 1-up you - every lost meaningful item hurts - but my box that got lost in transit was the one with a painting my great-grandmother gave me when I was 3. Literally irreplaceable.
August 13, 2025 at 5:14 AM
Call the moving company, and put a claim in through their insurance. They must have something in place for this kind of thing? Boxes get dropped, even lost sometimes (mine did when I moved back to the UK!).
August 13, 2025 at 4:21 AM
I guess many jobs fall within the remit of "housewife" if the others have work themselves. Balancing this stuff can be tricky though - my partner works full time (from home) but I'm disabled and can't do the more physical chores. I try to even it out by doing the scheduling, phone calls, paperwork..
August 13, 2025 at 4:20 AM