I literally agreed with you and just stated that I can see both sides. Idk why you are getting so pissed at people wanting to engage with your post? I didn't assume anything of you, but the way you react now is telling me a lot.

But that's my point you can't always see if people are perfectly capable of standing

Idk I can see both sides. Some people might not be able to stand as long or have other reasons that you might not be able to see 🤷

I was so scared on my first time

Try braiding your hair close to your scalp