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olfnt.bsky.social
@olfnt.bsky.social
Eternal uprooted immigrant, belonging neither there nor here. Mom of a boy and a bird.
Snow evaporating from a fence on a sunny day
January 6, 2026 at 10:25 AM
Full moon in the suburbs.
January 5, 2026 at 8:47 PM
I contain multitudes (Walt Whitman and Amsterdam Light Festival)
January 4, 2026 at 7:26 PM
Amsterdam wild life (including the funky tree)
January 3, 2026 at 3:23 PM
(Faceless) nobility buried under Lund Church about a thousand years ago:
December 30, 2025 at 8:16 PM
They met years after almost loving each other to destruction, two people who each survived by turning into stone, and they spent a polite afternoon being “glad” the other one is doing well and saying they will stay in touch, petrified forever
December 29, 2025 at 9:34 AM
Took a Pilates class that ended with an unexpected guided meditation, and then she finished with “touch the ground you’re lying on. Seal the experience. Because it happened”, and I liked that word sealing because I wanted so hard for all of it to be true
December 28, 2025 at 9:33 AM
The coldest Christmas in the last 15 years
December 26, 2025 at 3:32 PM
… and they’ve been doing that for thousands of years until about five minute ago, when it turned out that apparently humans are no longer required:

www.theguardian.com/music/2025/d...?
December 24, 2025 at 6:43 PM
How are you not in awe of the fact that humans have been consciously creating music for over 60 THOUSAND years
December 23, 2025 at 5:19 PM
How cool is it to hang old brass instruments above the bar, each with its own untold history. De Rijp
December 22, 2025 at 7:41 AM
Selective memory and rewriting history are the biggest pitfalls of every relationship
December 21, 2025 at 7:39 PM
Yesterday someone complimented me that I was “very Dutch”, and I objected because how many times was I accused (by old friends) of “turning Dutch” when I moved away, as if integrating (in order to survive) is the worst betrayal of one’s True Identity
December 20, 2025 at 9:41 AM
Someone said in a podcast “Nietzsche was so wonderfully inconsistent”, and I can’t stop trying (and failing) to come up with an example of a wonderful inconsistency, and also wondering what it says about me if I could never in the millions of evers think of any inconsistency as wonderful
December 19, 2025 at 2:26 PM
Wildlife coming out in the middle of the night
December 18, 2025 at 7:19 AM
Holiday season is upon us: aerial view over greedy consumerism (Utrecht’s biggest shopping mall)
December 17, 2025 at 12:08 PM
After a second first date which turned into a confession about how he hates himself, went for a walk with a friend who confided about her psychotic, self-harming teenage son. I’m hurting for people around me, yet can’t want for this day to be over.
December 16, 2025 at 8:36 PM
Looking up through the glass ceiling (of a tram stop, after a frosty night)
December 13, 2025 at 3:57 PM
How self-absorbed do you have to be, to give a recording of your voice as a birthday gift?
December 12, 2025 at 7:16 AM
Suno-generated song instead of an office Christmas speech - what’s the point of a rhymed ode when all I want for Christmas is more free time?
December 11, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Those unpretentious buildings that quietly stand there for hundreds of years
December 10, 2025 at 6:36 AM
Amsterdam morning
December 8, 2025 at 9:48 AM
Walked into a room where an aging Icelandic woman was sitting in what looked like a wheelchair. Felt awkward to reach out to shake her hand which, folded under a blanket, seemed as if she was maybe paralyzed. For the rest of the afternoon, wondered if it was a mistake
December 7, 2025 at 9:51 PM
Mother’s itch: The offspring is obviously perfect, but the rest of the world occasionally disagrees. Big plans for the future silently collapsing in the background. He might not be as talented as I thought, I whisper while the wave of worry overwhelms me
December 6, 2025 at 7:23 AM
When a colleague calls you a “humble queen” and you don’t recognize yourself in either of these two words
December 4, 2025 at 10:55 AM