ZOEY 101!! that’s the show

idk why but my immediate thought was that show with jamie lynn spears.. wtf is it called.. i can’t think of the name. super popular y2k show im just blanking on it

please do not feel obligated at all!! i don’t want anyone to put themselves out to help me🥹 i just wanted to share it in case anybody in a position where they aren’t having to worry about money so much happened to stumble across it

even just knowing im not alone in the drowning helps🫶🏼

i can never come out to my family, but i came out as bi to everyone else when i was 16. comphet being a possibility wasn’t even a thought in my mind!! then i hit 23/24 and realized “oh shit hahaha yeah i’ve never actually liked men” and had to do a lottttttt of relearning myself lmfao

you run. the cognitive dissonance between knowing everything you were taught was wrong and just hate but also the feeling of knowing everything you are goes against everything you were taught? and having parents who are still in it?? it’s so complicated dude

i just commented something like this on the quoted post. those people truly cannot grasp it i fear. no matter how much your beliefs evolve, that’s what you were raised on. that’s what you were taught in your most formative years. that’s a core part of your brain. the shame LINGERS no matter how far

like even knowing you were indoctrinated & that’s not true.. everything you are goes directly against everything you were raised to believe. changing your beliefs as you grow doesn’t erase the core pillars of what was instilled in you. it’s hard to shake the shame completely, from that alone

lingering effects it has on a gay persons mind to be raised not only around normalized homophobia but to be TAUGHT and raised on the idea that queerness is an abomination and going against god. something you will eternally burn in hell for. that shit will plague your mind even after getting out

allll of this + i think people with that mindset don’t realize how much self-directed hatred lingers from being raised in that southern christian conservative nonsense. as you grow you break down the hatred/bigotry towards others but you still hold it for yourself. they don’t think about what

this reddit thread made me realize ramen is considered soup (i knew but didn’t think about it) and i just so happen to have miso broth, ramen noodles, tofu, & bok choy on hand.. participating for free!!!

so gay and so hot😭

chappell roan, 5SOS, the 1D boys solo albums, the two lips, reneé rapp to name a few

so i just wanted to post the list for his room makeover on here in case anyone is feeling extra generous or has the means to help a mother out this season🥲

literally anything would be so super appreciated, even just ticking off some of the cheaper things lightens the load

also the dianna agron of it all bc she sang this on glee

“i feel pretty and witty and briiiiight”

in summation-

i think they are just a really good family. they clearly heavily compensate the kids and their time online doesn’t seem forced at all. i’ve never noticed a bias towards the bio kids, everyone seems to be treated equitably. they genuinely just seem like a massive, loving family.

4. they give their children bad names

i agree with this, their kids names are ridiculous.. valid qualm to have w them

the names
-KennaDee*
-JourNee
-Bridger
-KassaDee*
-Trey*
-JaineLee*
-LiLee
-SaiDee
-NayVee
-Luke
-PaisLee*
-DelayNee
-PresLee*
-ElleCee
-Beckham
-Ledger*

*bio kids