Roy Graff
@openrelating.bsky.social
Openrelating.love
Don't let fear or ignorance limit your capacity to love in your unique way.
Don't let fear or ignorance limit your capacity to love in your unique way.
13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
December 9, 2025 at 5:08 PM
13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Get ready for the final play fighting evening of 2025 in Brighton.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it.
December 1, 2025 at 3:40 PM
Get ready for the final play fighting evening of 2025 in Brighton.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it.
13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
November 29, 2025 at 5:06 PM
13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
November 19, 2025 at 5:06 PM
13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Get ready for the final play fighting evening of 2025 in Brighton.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it.
November 10, 2025 at 5:47 PM
Get ready for the final play fighting evening of 2025 in Brighton.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it.
13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
November 9, 2025 at 5:09 PM
13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Episode 236 of the Modern Anarchy podcast with Dr. Nicole Thompson.
Roy Graff (he/him) joins us for a conversation all about finding pleasure in expansive relating. Together we talk about the generations of lost orgasms, our unconscious cultural conditioning, and stepping into more touch support.
Roy Graff (he/him) joins us for a conversation all about finding pleasure in expansive relating. Together we talk about the generations of lost orgasms, our unconscious cultural conditioning, and stepping into more touch support.
November 6, 2025 at 5:27 PM
Episode 236 of the Modern Anarchy podcast with Dr. Nicole Thompson.
Roy Graff (he/him) joins us for a conversation all about finding pleasure in expansive relating. Together we talk about the generations of lost orgasms, our unconscious cultural conditioning, and stepping into more touch support.
Roy Graff (he/him) joins us for a conversation all about finding pleasure in expansive relating. Together we talk about the generations of lost orgasms, our unconscious cultural conditioning, and stepping into more touch support.
I would love to invite you to take part in this study of sexual health practices in non-monogamous spaces.
It takes 5 minutes or so, and would help with understanding gaps in knowledge as well as see where our collective STI risk profile is currently.
It takes 5 minutes or so, and would help with understanding gaps in knowledge as well as see where our collective STI risk profile is currently.
November 5, 2025 at 2:14 PM
I would love to invite you to take part in this study of sexual health practices in non-monogamous spaces.
It takes 5 minutes or so, and would help with understanding gaps in knowledge as well as see where our collective STI risk profile is currently.
It takes 5 minutes or so, and would help with understanding gaps in knowledge as well as see where our collective STI risk profile is currently.
13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
October 30, 2025 at 4:35 PM
13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Our next monthly play fighting workshop with Roy will be on 6th November.
Nearest tube is Edgware Road.
https://openrelating.love/events
Nearest tube is Edgware Road.
https://openrelating.love/events
October 23, 2025 at 3:14 PM
Our next monthly play fighting workshop with Roy will be on 6th November.
Nearest tube is Edgware Road.
https://openrelating.love/events
Nearest tube is Edgware Road.
https://openrelating.love/events
13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
October 20, 2025 at 4:06 PM
13 Dec. Hackney Wick, London from 4:30pm.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
Play fighting is all about connection to your own body and energies flowing through it. Only from that space you can wrestle and play in a wholesome, connected, delicious way with other beings.
17th September
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
October 1, 2025 at 5:06 PM
17th September
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
Our monthly play fighting workshop with Roy takes place on the first Thursday of each month, in Hackney Wick, East London.
https://openrelating.love/events
https://openrelating.love/events
September 30, 2025 at 5:02 PM
Our monthly play fighting workshop with Roy takes place on the first Thursday of each month, in Hackney Wick, East London.
https://openrelating.love/events
https://openrelating.love/events
17th September
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
September 26, 2025 at 5:07 PM
17th September
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
Our monthly play fighting workshop with Roy takes place on the first Thursday of each month, in Hackney Wick, East London.
https://openrelating.love/events
https://openrelating.love/events
September 23, 2025 at 5:02 PM
Our monthly play fighting workshop with Roy takes place on the first Thursday of each month, in Hackney Wick, East London.
https://openrelating.love/events
https://openrelating.love/events
International Solo Polyamory Day is September 24th!
At 6pm British Standard Time, Ro @unapolygetically and myself will be live on Instagram, in conversation about this relationship dynamic.
We hope you will join us and send us your questions.
At 6pm British Standard Time, Ro @unapolygetically and myself will be live on Instagram, in conversation about this relationship dynamic.
We hope you will join us and send us your questions.
September 22, 2025 at 4:32 PM
International Solo Polyamory Day is September 24th!
At 6pm British Standard Time, Ro @unapolygetically and myself will be live on Instagram, in conversation about this relationship dynamic.
We hope you will join us and send us your questions.
At 6pm British Standard Time, Ro @unapolygetically and myself will be live on Instagram, in conversation about this relationship dynamic.
We hope you will join us and send us your questions.
17th September
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
September 21, 2025 at 5:07 PM
17th September
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
17th September
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
September 16, 2025 at 5:13 PM
17th September
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
Our monthly play fighting workshop with Roy takes place on the first Thursday of each month, in Hackney Wick, East London.
https://openrelating.love/events
https://openrelating.love/events
September 16, 2025 at 5:08 PM
Our monthly play fighting workshop with Roy takes place on the first Thursday of each month, in Hackney Wick, East London.
https://openrelating.love/events
https://openrelating.love/events
https://openrelating.love/events
Join us in Brighton on 13 September for another exhilarating and magical edition of play fighting with Roy. We will have a facilitated workshop for 2.5 hours, followed by free flow play.
If you have questions about this event, my DMs are open.
Join us in Brighton on 13 September for another exhilarating and magical edition of play fighting with Roy. We will have a facilitated workshop for 2.5 hours, followed by free flow play.
If you have questions about this event, my DMs are open.
September 13, 2025 at 9:02 AM
https://openrelating.love/events
Join us in Brighton on 13 September for another exhilarating and magical edition of play fighting with Roy. We will have a facilitated workshop for 2.5 hours, followed by free flow play.
If you have questions about this event, my DMs are open.
Join us in Brighton on 13 September for another exhilarating and magical edition of play fighting with Roy. We will have a facilitated workshop for 2.5 hours, followed by free flow play.
If you have questions about this event, my DMs are open.
17th September
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
September 11, 2025 at 5:16 PM
17th September
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
7pm UK (11am PCT/2pm EST)
Instagram Live with @radicalrelating and @openrelating
#Community and #Attachment in Non-Monogamy
Our monthly play fighting workshop with Roy takes place on the first Thursday of each month, in Hackney Wick, East London.
https://openrelating.love/events
https://openrelating.love/events
September 9, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Our monthly play fighting workshop with Roy takes place on the first Thursday of each month, in Hackney Wick, East London.
https://openrelating.love/events
https://openrelating.love/events
Are you monogamous?
Or, do you believe that when you hold on tightly to your partner, this will prevent them from ever leaving you?
#mononormativity
Or, do you believe that when you hold on tightly to your partner, this will prevent them from ever leaving you?
#mononormativity
September 8, 2025 at 3:04 PM
Are you monogamous?
Or, do you believe that when you hold on tightly to your partner, this will prevent them from ever leaving you?
#mononormativity
Or, do you believe that when you hold on tightly to your partner, this will prevent them from ever leaving you?
#mononormativity
Love may be thought of as unconditional.
Relationships need conditions and standards.
People in relationships deserve to have boundaries respected by their partners.
I can love you, yet limit my interactions with you, transition from romantic to platonic, or even stop all contact.
Relationships need conditions and standards.
People in relationships deserve to have boundaries respected by their partners.
I can love you, yet limit my interactions with you, transition from romantic to platonic, or even stop all contact.
September 7, 2025 at 5:13 PM
Love may be thought of as unconditional.
Relationships need conditions and standards.
People in relationships deserve to have boundaries respected by their partners.
I can love you, yet limit my interactions with you, transition from romantic to platonic, or even stop all contact.
Relationships need conditions and standards.
People in relationships deserve to have boundaries respected by their partners.
I can love you, yet limit my interactions with you, transition from romantic to platonic, or even stop all contact.
https://openrelating.love/events
Join us in Brighton on 13 September for another exhilarating and magical edition of play fighting with Roy. We will have a facilitated workshop for 2.5 hours, followed by free flow play.
If you have questions about this event, my DMs are open.
Join us in Brighton on 13 September for another exhilarating and magical edition of play fighting with Roy. We will have a facilitated workshop for 2.5 hours, followed by free flow play.
If you have questions about this event, my DMs are open.
September 6, 2025 at 9:02 AM
https://openrelating.love/events
Join us in Brighton on 13 September for another exhilarating and magical edition of play fighting with Roy. We will have a facilitated workshop for 2.5 hours, followed by free flow play.
If you have questions about this event, my DMs are open.
Join us in Brighton on 13 September for another exhilarating and magical edition of play fighting with Roy. We will have a facilitated workshop for 2.5 hours, followed by free flow play.
If you have questions about this event, my DMs are open.