I don't care about that part but jesus christ just give me an option to have the UI show playstation buttons. As far as I can tell, Skate Story in particular even HAS an option like that, or it is correctly guessing what my controller is. But it will not stick with this. It is staying on xbox inputs

Genuinely one of the best changes for my mental health into my 30's has been effectively pulling this meme at myself whenever I catch myself pondering scenarios, just overwhelm all the catastrophizing by repeating "you're only allowed to get upset or mad at real people/things"