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petitefun.bsky.social
@petitefun.bsky.social

Place for my pets and things that make me laugh 🐾🤭 maybe a fit dump or two.

🏳️‍⚧️ ♾️ AuDHD.
🎀They/Them
🎮 Jedi Survivor
Hypermobile ➰
Fibro Warrior
LDN 💊
Psychonaut 🚀
Absolutely! I want to hear about positioning, water breaks, sensory breaks, non penetrative encounters, body worship, access in K*nk. So needed
February 1, 2025 at 6:10 PM
The value of the ones I’ve tried really isn’t there, it’s either mostly beans or super small and either way, generally way overpriced.
January 25, 2025 at 2:10 AM
When the clutter in your own spaces just melds into general visual landscape but going into other cluttered spaces stresses you out 😩🫠🫠
January 24, 2025 at 8:18 PM
Wait I can’t haha! It was a link to this fb group. If you join u can see her posts
January 22, 2025 at 7:38 AM
Oh no- going to send u a msg
January 22, 2025 at 7:37 AM
Eek! 😍 Idk if you can see this but pls go look at the story albums by a fellow calico lover! I’m so obsessed shorturl.at/pvIXl
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January 22, 2025 at 4:34 AM
Very difficult even at the best of times! Ps- one of my fave comfort shows is Still Game - that or Two Doors Down. Got me through some rough times
January 11, 2025 at 7:30 PM
Anyone have a gift link of this article with no paywall?
January 11, 2025 at 6:47 PM
Try not to be too hard on yourself, under capitalism rest and comfort are seen as luxuries rather than inherent human rights!! Balancing survival with well-being is truly a massive challenge 😞
January 11, 2025 at 6:42 PM
In combination with loads of regulation with my angel, I feel pretty good after this break. I managed to make 4 meals without burning the house down! What are some ways that you’ve been regulating your nervous system? #actuallyautistic
January 11, 2025 at 5:54 PM
Incorporating neurodrills like the ones below has unlocked some deeep states of calm and relaxation. I can do them virtually anywhere and they help recenter me. Here’s one:
January 11, 2025 at 5:54 PM
I’m on new meds now and my nerve pain has reduced significantly (shout out to low dose naltrexone). But the cognitive struggles remain.
January 11, 2025 at 5:54 PM
I pretty much survived on takeout and misc snacks. Burning a hole through my wallet and confidence in the process.
January 11, 2025 at 5:54 PM
I also started experiencing increased fibro flares affecting my hands. Chopping, using heavy cast iron pans and scrubbing caked on food would make my hands ache for hours. My finger joints would scream at me and my splints didn’t help.
January 11, 2025 at 5:54 PM
I was burning toast, pots were bubbling over, food was over cooked. I even baked food without seasoning it, once. This chipped away at my confidence and the cleanup was a nightmare.
January 11, 2025 at 5:54 PM
Next, when I’d eventually get the spoons (and courage) to try and cook it was as if I’d never done it before. I struggle with #timeblindness but “kitchen time” was one of the few spaces that always made sense to me. I’d enter hyperfocus and flow state relatively easily. All that vanished.
January 11, 2025 at 5:54 PM
I would open the fridge and be awash with a wave of anxiety so strong I’d often tear up and feel dizzy. The same started to happen when I looked in the pantry.
January 11, 2025 at 5:54 PM
It can be stressful and upsetting to realize you aren’t able to access skills you had prior. It wasn’t a sudden process either. It was a slow, gradual decline that began strangely, with a growing aversion to my fridge.
January 11, 2025 at 5:54 PM
With enough time spent in a #lowdemands lifestyle I am able to do things like shop for, prepare and cook food! I thought I was in true regression as I haven’t been able to do that in any sustainable way for the past year and half
January 11, 2025 at 5:54 PM
My body is acutely aware of the difference between rest and recuperation. Rest gets me back to baseline, recuperating on the other hand has the ability to expand my functional bandwidth.
January 11, 2025 at 5:54 PM