🍰 Sage 🍰
@prettyholics.bsky.social
hi im sage ♡ 28 ♡ he/they ♡ magical girl irl ♡ autistic + bpd ♡ tortie enthusiast ♡ completely normal about precure (lying)
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Anger is not evidence that you are a bad or mean person. It's evidence that you've been invalidated & unheard by people & institutions who, by rights, should have seen you, heard you, and held you.
December 25, 2025 at 12:59 AM
Anger is not evidence that you are a bad or mean person. It's evidence that you've been invalidated & unheard by people & institutions who, by rights, should have seen you, heard you, and held you.
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Trauma survivors are very often beyond the point of having anger we need to "vent." We're often at the point of having not just anger, but rage that has been denied & disowned for years-- & that we're worried will come out in a destructive torrent if we even acknowledge it.
December 25, 2025 at 12:58 AM
Trauma survivors are very often beyond the point of having anger we need to "vent." We're often at the point of having not just anger, but rage that has been denied & disowned for years-- & that we're worried will come out in a destructive torrent if we even acknowledge it.
I ALMOST FORGOT ABOUT THIS thank u friendsies...
LAST CALL for leaving me a nice message on my treeeeee
Color My Tree! (Decorate your tree!)
Get christmas messgages and Decorate your tree ✨
colormytree.me
December 25, 2025 at 9:52 PM
I ALMOST FORGOT ABOUT THIS thank u friendsies...
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ITS TIME
JOYFUL COLORFUL CHRISTMAS! [Official] Go! Princess Precure
YouTube video by Anime Music Channel
youtu.be
December 21, 2025 at 2:52 PM
ITS TIME
holy shit nevermind trying to actually come kind of Some kind of conflict resolution is fucking pointless because these people will literally drop dead before letting go of their ego long enough to admit they have ANY capacity for wrongdoing and nobody ever fucking cares when im being abused anyway
December 20, 2025 at 5:15 AM
holy shit nevermind trying to actually come kind of Some kind of conflict resolution is fucking pointless because these people will literally drop dead before letting go of their ego long enough to admit they have ANY capacity for wrongdoing and nobody ever fucking cares when im being abused anyway
like yeah im sure the guy who called me a fucking slur is a Great judge of character
December 20, 2025 at 4:08 AM
like yeah im sure the guy who called me a fucking slur is a Great judge of character
she is such a snuggle bug lately..... 🐛
December 20, 2025 at 3:22 AM
she is such a snuggle bug lately..... 🐛
LAST CALL for leaving me a nice message on my treeeeee
Color My Tree! (Decorate your tree!)
Get christmas messgages and Decorate your tree ✨
colormytree.me
December 20, 2025 at 2:57 AM
LAST CALL for leaving me a nice message on my treeeeee
hi you don't get to decide for me whether something was hurtful or not, thanks.
December 19, 2025 at 4:10 PM
hi you don't get to decide for me whether something was hurtful or not, thanks.
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Remember: the fact that people who deny & disown their own trauma or who belittle trauma survivors don't understand or approve of you is actually the good news.
Understand their scorn for the badge of honor that it is.
Understand their scorn for the badge of honor that it is.
December 19, 2025 at 3:48 PM
Remember: the fact that people who deny & disown their own trauma or who belittle trauma survivors don't understand or approve of you is actually the good news.
Understand their scorn for the badge of honor that it is.
Understand their scorn for the badge of honor that it is.
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Setting boundaries always risks someone being mad at at us, & that's often a specific trigger for abuse survivors in particular. No shame. You're not being "childish." Your nervous system is connecting to experiences that actually happened-- you didn't imagine or exaggerate them.
December 19, 2025 at 3:49 PM
Setting boundaries always risks someone being mad at at us, & that's often a specific trigger for abuse survivors in particular. No shame. You're not being "childish." Your nervous system is connecting to experiences that actually happened-- you didn't imagine or exaggerate them.
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Some survivors are resistant to acknowledging our trauma wounds because we feel to accept a diagnosis is somehow making an "excuse." Nothing could be further from the truth. Accepting that we're wounded is the first, necessary step to working a realistic, no-excuses recovery.
December 19, 2025 at 3:50 PM
Some survivors are resistant to acknowledging our trauma wounds because we feel to accept a diagnosis is somehow making an "excuse." Nothing could be further from the truth. Accepting that we're wounded is the first, necessary step to working a realistic, no-excuses recovery.
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Shaming & pressuring ourselves to "behave better" is us modeling our abusers & bullies-- & our nervous system will respond to us the same way it responded to them.
If we keep doing what we've always done-- or what was done to us-- we'll keep getting what we've always gotten.
If we keep doing what we've always done-- or what was done to us-- we'll keep getting what we've always gotten.
December 19, 2025 at 3:50 PM
Shaming & pressuring ourselves to "behave better" is us modeling our abusers & bullies-- & our nervous system will respond to us the same way it responded to them.
If we keep doing what we've always done-- or what was done to us-- we'll keep getting what we've always gotten.
If we keep doing what we've always done-- or what was done to us-- we'll keep getting what we've always gotten.
ive been playing ms on and off since i was a literal child and i have absolutely no idea how this game works </3
December 19, 2025 at 9:21 AM
ive been playing ms on and off since i was a literal child and i have absolutely no idea how this game works </3
yeah im fucking done being gaslit by fucking ABUSERS who think its okay to call people slurs and cant stop lying about shit i have literally proven. with evidence. 500 fucking times.
December 18, 2025 at 3:36 PM
yeah im fucking done being gaslit by fucking ABUSERS who think its okay to call people slurs and cant stop lying about shit i have literally proven. with evidence. 500 fucking times.
bro what do you MEAN they used to gender chocolate. ITS FUCKING CHOCOLATE??
December 18, 2025 at 2:52 PM
bro what do you MEAN they used to gender chocolate. ITS FUCKING CHOCOLATE??
can i get more than 2 hours of sleep at a time damn!!
December 18, 2025 at 12:15 PM
can i get more than 2 hours of sleep at a time damn!!
oh my god its fucking Wimdy again. it gets so fucking windy here it literally knocks the power out
December 18, 2025 at 6:36 AM
oh my god its fucking Wimdy again. it gets so fucking windy here it literally knocks the power out
i am holding your hand so very gently as i say this but like. endogenic systems are a very possible thing that can exist. and also i dont think most people actually know what that means. like plurality is not exclusive to being traumatized
December 18, 2025 at 6:01 AM
i am holding your hand so very gently as i say this but like. endogenic systems are a very possible thing that can exist. and also i dont think most people actually know what that means. like plurality is not exclusive to being traumatized
anyway sorry for yapping so much. take my cats being cute
December 18, 2025 at 4:28 AM
anyway sorry for yapping so much. take my cats being cute
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You are not "crazy"-- you've been put in no-win situations again & again. Smart people are made to feel "crazy" every day by people & systems that make them feel trapped, controlled, or "in trouble."
Breathe; blink; focus; & remember who you are & what you're all about.
Breathe; blink; focus; & remember who you are & what you're all about.
December 17, 2025 at 11:27 PM
You are not "crazy"-- you've been put in no-win situations again & again. Smart people are made to feel "crazy" every day by people & systems that make them feel trapped, controlled, or "in trouble."
Breathe; blink; focus; & remember who you are & what you're all about.
Breathe; blink; focus; & remember who you are & what you're all about.
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That voice in the back of your head telling you you "can't" do what you have to do to feel & function better has absolutely nothing to do w/ whether you can do what you need to do to feel & function better.
It just wants you to quit trying & let your bullies & abusers win.
It just wants you to quit trying & let your bullies & abusers win.
December 17, 2025 at 11:28 PM
That voice in the back of your head telling you you "can't" do what you have to do to feel & function better has absolutely nothing to do w/ whether you can do what you need to do to feel & function better.
It just wants you to quit trying & let your bullies & abusers win.
It just wants you to quit trying & let your bullies & abusers win.
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You did not "build an identity around your pain." You were tricked into believing your pain IS your identity. Recovery is about waking up & realizing how badly you've been conned by trauma & a culture that blames victims.
You're not just 194 trauma responses in a trench coat.
You're not just 194 trauma responses in a trench coat.
December 17, 2025 at 11:29 PM
You did not "build an identity around your pain." You were tricked into believing your pain IS your identity. Recovery is about waking up & realizing how badly you've been conned by trauma & a culture that blames victims.
You're not just 194 trauma responses in a trench coat.
You're not just 194 trauma responses in a trench coat.